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Do you get horny then think omorashi or do you struggle to get aroused without omarashi?


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So I have a confession: I often find it difficult to get sexually aroused without either:

a full bladder myself

watching or reading about someone else with one. 

 

However i know of others who get horny first then think about it or read onorashi. 

Curious as to which way around it is for others. 

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most of the time if i feel myself getting desperate even a little bit i'll always get horny immediately. the two sensations are kind of inseparable for me.

i almost always need to include something omo related in my fantasies / the content i consume otherwise getting aroused is a bit difficult without feeling desperate myself. rarely ever can i get off without omo being included one way or another lol

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Omo is the only thing for me. I've never been turned on by normal sexuality before. Before I was ever intimate with anyone, I thought maybe the "real thing" would turn me on in the moment in a way that porn/fantasy won't, but then I made out with a girl for the first time, and while I did enjoy the experience for other reasons, I was at no point aroused by it. So yeah, I guess that experience is what really made me realize that while I don't think my sexuality neatly fits into the normal gay/straight/bi/ace paradigm, the most accurate description of my sexuality would be asexual. I've never had sex and I frankly don't really want to, but I do want a loving romantic relationship with someone, and know that to most people that necessarily has to include sex. I guess I'll just figure it out when I get there lol. I'll probably just have to think about omo while we're having sex, which isn't ideal, but it might be the only way I could make it work.

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My fetishes (of which omo is probably the strongest) are the only source of sexual pleasure for me. I have an aversion to actual sexuality. It is ironic that I have a particular aversion to pussy when it's around that area where the pee comes out (all the more reason for them to be wearing something when they're peeing). Same with the anus and me having a fart fetish

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10 hours ago, mad the cat said:

I have a non-omo girlfriend, so luckily I find just usual "vanilla stuff" pretty good as well. But omo definitely has the potential to make me lose my mind. 🙈

So, @Mbgpeelover , did you ever have non-omo partners? If so, how did you deal with that?

I had an non omo husband for years (still do officially) but he had some ‘difficulties’ himself die to illness so it wasn’t an issue. Had it been i woukd just have made sure I wasn’t well hydrated before fun. 

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2 hours ago, Mbgpeelover said:

I had an non omo husband for years (still do officially) but he had some ‘difficulties’ himself die to illness so it wasn’t an issue. Had it been i woukd just have made sure I wasn’t well hydrated before fun. 

Oh, I see! So when fun was planned you'd make sure to prepare accordingly? Also, sorry for asking such a personal question out of the blue before, and thank you so much for answering it! 😊

I know some people who can swing both omo and non-omo (like myself and here4thefun it seems), and I know some people who really just like omo but are asexual otherwise. But your post seemed to me like you're probably interested but have trouble if it is without omo, so I thought that's a really interesting perspective that I hadn't heard before. I imagine things would be a little difficult between me and my gf if I couldn't enjoy it without omo. Did your husband know about it?

(Also, if this is too personal here, I can totally understand if you'd rather not talk about it.)

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2 hours ago, mad the cat said:

Oh, I see! So when fun was planned you'd make sure to prepare accordingly? Also, sorry for asking such a personal question out of the blue before, and thank you so much for answering it! 😊

I know some people who can swing both omo and non-omo (like myself and here4thefun it seems), and I know some people who really just like omo but are asexual otherwise. But your post seemed to me like you're probably interested but have trouble if it is without omo, so I thought that's a really interesting perspective that I hadn't heard before. I imagine things would be a little difficult between me and my gf if I couldn't enjoy it without omo. Did your husband know about it?

(Also, if this is too personal here, I can totally understand if you'd rather not talk about it.)

Yes but it was an absolutely no from him which I always respected. 

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20 minutes ago, Mbgpeelover said:

Yes but it was an absolutely no from him which I always respected. 

Absolutely! Can't force anyone to like your „kink“, just as well as no one can force you to stop liking it. That's just not how it works. Thanks for sharing your story, that was super interesting! One more thing, if I may? How did you tell him? Because I'm still struggling with telling my girlfriend about my omo side. 🙈

 

I don't know, @brittanybunny , I don't find that very wired at all. I can absolutely relate to that. 😊

 

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8 minutes ago, mad the cat said:

Absolutely! Can't force anyone to like your „kink“, just as well as no one can force you to stop liking it. That's just not how it works. Thanks for sharing your story, that was super interesting! One more thing, if I may? How did you tell him? Because I'm still struggling with telling my girlfriend about my omo side. 🙈

He found out by accident as he came home one day absolutely desperate and I asked him about it and the more he told me the hornier I got. He never did talk about thatbstuff again sadly though. We are still friends just no sexual side any more.    

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Omorashi is my biggest kink but I don't need it to get aroused or get myself off. A lot of the time I will start out my arousal by watching or reading omo related things but other times I go to one of my other fetishes. A lot of the time too I will be watching other things and then I will come to omorashi as I know that this stuff turns me on the most and makes for the best orgasms.

I usually end up looking at omorashi stuff or coming to this site because I need to pee and that need sets my mind going onto naughty things.

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Pee holding has excited me from the age of puberty. I came for the first time thinking about something pee related. I did not understand what was happening, only that it felt great.  So yes it arouses me greatly. Reading a good desperation story causes me to become instantly erect.

Back when I was married, befor our relationship began to sour I would  easily become aroused for traditional sexual intercourse. Pee holding would be a bonus.

Probably 10  years ago ,after years of not having a female to have sex with a female,  for many,many years,and self pleasuring to pee stories, I found it difficult to become fully aroused by regular sex . While my girl friend at the time could get me hard, I couldn't cum without something pee related.  After I was sure she was satisfied, I ran old pee stories in my mind until I ejaculated. I know she asked why it took so long for me to cum, and why I suddenly got so quiet. I could not talk while concentrating on thinking about a female being desperate and wetting her pants.

So today , yea I struggle to become aroused without omorashi. I need to read  about or watch a video , or most often think about a woman becoming increasingly desperate and wetting self or her watching me do the same. 

I really enjoy telling women how desperate I am. Like right now, it has been over 8 hours since I peed. I have been here at my computer, mostly doing tasks as my bladder slowly filled and became increasing uncomfortable since 4.5 hours ago. Now it is almost painfully full and there is pressure in my penis, but that is not serious sitting here. Getting up , loading the dishwasher and laundry will be interesting. I don't want to make a mess, but I don't mind if I start leaking. I am just wearing pajamas as I have not left the house today. They are thin and won't absorb much pee.

I did the same thing last week eventually wetting my cotton briefs.

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for me it depends, i'm usually a bit horny most of the time, so if i'm not doing something else and i start feeling desperate, i start thinking about omorashi stuff/read stories/watch porn/etc, and i usually get aroused really quickly and get off faster than when i just watch plain porn, so i don't need something omorashi related to get horny and get off, but it does speed things up lol

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I need Omo to get aroused. I can do really specific porn or fiction, but I don't care for most stuff (realism is key). 

I will also say that just the act of peeing often gives me a little tingle downstairs. 

I'm not a fan of vanilla sex and I have a pretty big aversion to genitalia. I'm down with boobs and butts, just not the butthole. I feel dirty thinking of it. Bleh.

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