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I hate porn videos with fake desperation and wettings, but if it’s in a cartoon or an anime I love it. Sometimes shows are good too, but not usually.

I figure people would probably prefer real desperation over fake desperation, but what are your thoughts on it? 

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I've 'played up' my desperation numerous times, sometimes to get permission to go pee, sometimes for a sexy little tiny exhibitionistic thrill (see my collected works here on the forum). I like this approach, because when I'm really desperate, it's hard to pay attention to what's going on around me, so if I want to do this, I need to be a little more in control than I appear to be. Plus, if you are doing something somewhat public, you never know if you might need to call it quits for a random reason. Getting past the point of no return has risks and consequences ?

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The ex-girlfriend used to fake her desperation because of how uncomfortable she was with my fetish. It still turned me on from the amount of detail she would put into the fake desperations. It all depends on how involved the person gets when they are faking it. When I watch porn some of the fake desperations that I see turn me on and others don’t. 

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Fake or not, what's important to me is that it is believable.

In other words, if it's faked well enough, I should be left not noticing it was faked.

With desperation, a lot of that of course depends on the acting ability of performer. It's a bit like 'drunk' acting - a poorer actor overdoes it, and you notice it's not 'real'. And let's face it, performers in the adult industry are not always exactly the greatest of actors.

In the end, the rule of 'you can't know what you don't know' applies. If it's faked well enough, then you don't know it's faked. Your favourite scene ever? Maybe it's faked!

(I'd half wrote this post yesterday before TV Guy posted his, but I'm just echoing his thoughts really - it's about the suspension of disbelief. It's a subject I've wanted to discuss in this forum since I joined, but never had the time or energy ? )

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Like what's already been said, suspension of disbelief, but I am far more likely to enjoy it when it is real desperation and moreso in a real scenario. I'll write off the fakeness of the situation or desperation if the wetting is long and interesting.

Without both, it quickly becomes a turn-off. Even if the desperation is real, if it's not natural and played up sexually (i.e. the model rubs herself sensually and talks sultry about her desperation, overtly moaning, etc.) it will also become a big turn-off for me.

 

I'm sure there's people who are in to that, and even if she pees for 10-15 seconds, videos seem to get overwhelming likes, just not from me.

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On 11/29/2018 at 5:52 PM, TVGuy said:

Most people who make fetish videos, unfortunately, lack the understanding of the theories behind filmmaking and visual storytelling.  Even for fetish filmmakers who do possess the necessary skills and knowledge, the economic realities of producing such videos often is a major obstacle in doing a really good job with it.  The suspension of disbelief is also incredibly fragile- Even if it is achieved, it can be broken instantly as soon as something inauthentic happens.  This could be a bad edit, bad patch of audio, camera motion, a glance from one of the models, or any other number of things.

hmmm, that must be why media peeing scenes can be so popular despite so many of them being obviously fake

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Many desperation and wetting videos and stories are based on unlikely or even laughable premises, and that can be a turnoff.  With the videos, I have to ask, "If this is an accident or unplanned, why is there a camera recording this?  Why is he standing in a bathtub?"  They are essentially Pee For the Camera clips.   

(I feel the same way about alleged "reality" shows on TV.  All those personal, private moments have a camera and sound crew right there, and when it's covered from several angles, it probably was acted repeatedly and edited together.)  

 

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On 12/16/2018 at 10:52 AM, Spectator9 said:

Many desperation and wetting videos and stories are based on unlikely or even laughable premises, and that can be a turnoff.  With the videos, I have to ask, "If this is an accident or unplanned, why is there a camera recording this?  Why is he standing in a bathtub?"  They are essentially Pee For the Camera clips.   

(I feel the same way about alleged "reality" shows on TV.  All those personal, private moments have a camera and sound crew right there, and when it's covered from several angles, it probably was acted repeatedly and edited together.)  

I agree to a point.  I have no desire to have an accident in public. However, I enjoy being desperate and holding my pee until I can't, and it comes out on it;s own. Although I set up the situation intentionally,the desperation and uncontrolled peeing / wetting is real, because I didn't pee when I should have. I have wet my jeans in the tub just to contain the puddle.

 

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I think I can spot fake wettings. When the subject is obviously poorly acts fake. about her need to pee by for one thing using a fake sounding voice, and then only peeing a tiny amount, it is probably not genuine. I have seen videos on in particular from here the girl is about to wet herself. She is wearing a skirt and light blue panties. The camera focuses on her crotch. When the  scene opens there is already a small wet spot  in her panties. 

Apparently she can't use her hand to hold herself, but she squeezes her thigh with each wave, simultaneously tightening her pelvic floor mussels . You see her pussy actually  flexing each time through her panties. Eventually she starts leaking but holds on for a while , before giving in and releasing  a big puddle with a nice hiss. I believe it's  Not faked and very hot.

She obviously came to the shoot both a very full bladder and continued holding and drinking until either they were set to film and she may have overestimated the time she had remaining to hold, and leaked a bit first.

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Personally, I don't mind fake desperation as long as the person involved acts like it's a real desperation.

For example, he/she holds his/her pee for ages, heads to the bathroom to find that it's locked, unfortunately. Desperately and frustrated, tries to unlock and then succeeds but too late. He/she wet himself/herself.

And also whispering,moaning and facial expressions matter.

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