kenken4k 11 Posted November 12, 2018 Share Posted November 12, 2018 Has anyone ever shared their pee fetish with someone for the first time, but didn’t enjoy it as you were expecting because you werent physically attracted to them. It happened to me a year ago. I had this girl pee on me because I was curious. But when she peed it wasn’t as exciting as I was hoping for, because I wasn’t that attracted to her. I know looks aren’t everything but to an extent they’re essential. Does physical attraction even make a difference? Quote Link to comment
SmokySky 31 Posted November 12, 2018 Share Posted November 12, 2018 I am sure physical attraction is a very important part of sexuality, including fetishes. If you don't feel attracted to the partner that will of course be prozessed by your subconscious mind. As a result of that the interaction is not as pleasing as with the type of person you were always dreaming about. I would say, be happy that a girl did that for you and wait until you can try your fetishes in a relationship with a girl you really like, maybe even love, and that you are also attracted to. Will be totally different... Greetings ? Quote Link to comment
SpaceWonderer 699 Posted November 12, 2018 Share Posted November 12, 2018 I think it's more complicated than yes or no. The personal perception of fetish makes a big difference. If we will draw a parallel line with BDSM play, in BDSM world there are always people who find BDSM highly sexual, and there're others who don't consider it sexual at all for themselves. And sometimes these people just disagree like in a pointless debate if bacon is more tasty than ice cream, while sometimes it causes issues, e.g. when during the play a person who thinks that BDSM isn't supposed to be sexual feels like their partner, who has an opposite opinion, is making too intimate and sexual touches or actions that make them uncomfortable, or sometimes these groups of people even talk shit about each other, like "you know... that Bob... BDSM is very sexual for him..." in a negative tone. Some people don't care who to play with, as long as they have an enthusiastic partner with nice attitude, while others need to feel sexual and physical attraction to their play partner to enjoy the play. Is it different in omorashi play? I don't think so. It all depends what camp are you in, so while for Bob it may highly matter if whoever gives him golden shower looks attractive and sexy to his taste, for Rob it may not matter at all, as long as someone will do it for him. Quote Link to comment
phil82.5 3 Posted November 13, 2018 Share Posted November 13, 2018 for me it is exactly the same as regular intercourse. you do or you don't and every shade of grey in between.. the biggest difference is that a less attractive (to me) girl who may be entertaining my likes might get extra "points" but i have turned down girls if when i imagine them wetting or playing and don't like the idea. (unhealthy diet and/or hydration standards, poor hygiene , heavy drug user etc. ) -semi germaphobe tho james07s 1 Quote Link to comment
SmolBlueJay 1 Posted November 14, 2018 Share Posted November 14, 2018 (edited) I believe it highly depends on the person. For example, my significant other is gray-ace and has a really hard time feeling sexually attracted to people yet still enjoys sexual acts sometimes. To him, physical appearance isn't a factor at all when it comes to someone he likes and when it comes to sexual things, it isn't really a factor either. For me, personality has always been more important and while physical appearance is somewhat important, if I fall for someone's personality then they'll automatically be attractive to me and I'll feel sexual attraction towards them. Personally, I don't do sexual things with someone unless I'm in a relationship with them so whoever I'm doing stuff with (whether omo related or not) I'm going to be attracted to them, and because I'm so into watersports itself, I don't think what the person looks like would matter to me. Their hygiene would to a degree but not their physical appearance. So it definitely depends on the person in my opinion. Edited November 14, 2018 by SmolBlueJay (see edit history) Quote Link to comment
Stanley79 636 Posted November 14, 2018 Share Posted November 14, 2018 At age 16 a girl of the same age did a pee show for me. Her visual appearance did not attract me. Except when she smiled or laughed with her eyes. Her curiosity always caught my attention. And the way she snuggled!!!! On our weekend drives we shared pee holds and watching each other pee. Wish I'd known how to break the barriers that pushed us apart. Quote Link to comment
Ghostblade913 221 Posted November 14, 2018 Share Posted November 14, 2018 I don’t think it would matter if it was a real life thing but if it’s porn the physical attraction does matter Quote Link to comment
Guest pseudonymaddie Posted November 16, 2018 Share Posted November 16, 2018 At risk of sounding a bit weird, I actually find the opposite.... like finding someone attractive really doesn't matter that much to my 'enjoyment' (or even i sometimes find the less attractive ones more sexy) i mean usually the face isnt in frame with omo videos so maybe I would think differently if it was, but in terms of body type ......it doesnt matter to me Quote Link to comment
Weasel 1,097 Posted November 17, 2018 Share Posted November 17, 2018 For me, this is purely sexual, so: absolutely. I've definitely stopped watching videos of people I don't find attractive, even if they were literally doing everything else in a way that's so arousing for me. And of course, if you're partnered with someone, then the emotional attraction makes an even bigger difference! james07s 1 Quote Link to comment
Guest insomea Posted November 17, 2018 Share Posted November 17, 2018 What @Weasel said. Exactly how it is for me. Maybe that's why I love his stories so much! Quote Link to comment
Emilylovesmusic 260 Posted December 9, 2018 Share Posted December 9, 2018 I think physical attraction is super important. I have had a friend or heard of someone who had an accident and it did not turn me on whatsoever because of my lack of physical attraction to the person. james07s 1 Quote Link to comment
~Skunky Nikki~ 274 Posted December 12, 2018 Share Posted December 12, 2018 For me, physical attraction has a lot to do with what turns me on and not. So, I'd say yes. james07s 1 Quote Link to comment
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