Skymie 57 Posted November 5, 2018 Share Posted November 5, 2018 Basically what the title says. Is there an indication or a sign that gives you a heads up a few seconds before completely losing it? Like, whenever you feel it, that's when you KNOW you're gonna lose control any second now. I always give up and run into the bathroom if it starts to hurt for a while. So I dont know myself Quote Link to comment
Dr. Philthy 97 Posted November 5, 2018 Share Posted November 5, 2018 I can hold for a very long time, but anytime I've experienced the first leak, it is very difficult to keep control so I know that I need to get to a toilet or somewhere else very quickly. Quote Link to comment
kochel428 583 Posted November 5, 2018 Share Posted November 5, 2018 (edited) It's similar to when you know you're about to drop a heavy weightâI can feel how tired my muscles are, at the same time I feel how hard my bladder is squeezing it out. Even when I'm really having an accident, it's not like the bottom suddenly drops out, it's like no matter how hard I try to hold, I feel my muscles giving in. This is making me start to want to do a hold... Edited November 5, 2018 by kochel428 (see edit history) Quote Link to comment
santasbrother 5 Posted November 6, 2018 Share Posted November 6, 2018 I usually start to clench my muscles together in intervals (like half a second and getting faster) until i more or less leak. When i don't do the clenching and just try to keep it sealed shut at one level, pee will slowly start to run out. However, i've only lost total control once, when i stood up and leaned backwards, holding my hands up. The pressure on my bulging bladder increased so much, that my muscles just completely gave in and i totally lost control further than just the ongoing leaks. This was the most amazing feeling ever, true desperation.... milofaul, Mbgpeelover and bladderxplode 3 Quote Link to comment
CarmenCD 1,363 Posted November 6, 2018 Share Posted November 6, 2018 I know I'm near the end when I start spurting in my panties regularly. But right before I loose it, I get the sensation of a strong urge to pee and than a strong pressure in my bladder. In a second or two pee comes out and I can't hold it any more, no matter what. At that moment even holding myself doesn't help any more. Quote Link to comment
jackthestripper 75 Posted January 18, 2019 Share Posted January 18, 2019 When I'm holding it and my sphincter starts to contract, like a pushing and pulling feeling. Soon after that spurts start to escape with the involuntary pushing part and trying to hold it in does no good anymore. Quote Link to comment
Gemmy 3,817 Posted February 6, 2019 ⚠Legendary Member Share Posted February 6, 2019 When I start to lose control I start dribbling into my panties, then leaking, then spurting. Then I get the feeling that I can no longer hold it and I am about to lose it. It is a combo feeling of my muscles giving in and the pressure being too much. As I get to the end of a hold the pressure gets so intense and that puts more strain on my muscles making them more tired until they eventually start to falter, hence the leaks and spurts. Then they end up giving out completely and nothing I do can stop it. Imagine you are holding your arms out in front of you for a long time. As time passes your muscles start to ache and it gets harder to hold them up. Then imagine as your muscles start to ache you start getting books placed into your hands, one by one until eventually the weight of the books is too much for your muscles and you drop your arms. That is the feeling I get, that feeling right before your arms fall. That is how I know when I can't hold it any longer. bladderxplode and nappypants 2 Quote Link to comment
Red Simpson 302 Posted February 6, 2019 Share Posted February 6, 2019 1 minute ago, Gemmy said: When I start to lose control I start dribbling into my panties, then leaking, then spurting. Then I get the feeling that I can no longer hold it and I am about to lose it. It is a combo feeling of my muscles giving in and the pressure being too much. As I get to the end of a hold the pressure gets so intense and that puts more strain on my muscles making them more tired until they eventually start to falter, hence the leaks and spurts. Then they end up giving out completely and nothing I do can stop it. I'm similar to you, only I can't hold myself when I start leaking, it's like my brain knows that won't work anymore. Quote Link to comment
Marco 186 Posted February 6, 2019 Share Posted February 6, 2019 9 minutes ago, Gemmy said: When I start to lose control I start dribbling into my panties, then leaking, then spurting. Then I get the feeling that I can no longer hold it and I am about to lose it. It is a combo feeling of my muscles giving in and the pressure being too much. As I get to the end of a hold the pressure gets so intense and that puts more strain on my muscles making them more tired until they eventually start to falter, hence the leaks and spurts. Then they end up giving out completely and nothing I do can stop it. Imagine you are holding your arms out in front of you for a long time. As time passes your muscles start to ache and it gets harder to hold them up. Then imagine as your muscles start to ache you start getting books placed into your hands, one by one until eventually the weight of the books is too much for your muscles and you drop your arms. That is the feeling I get, that feeling right before your arms fall. That is how I know when I can't hold it any longer. nice description! Quote Link to comment
Bravestone 375 Posted February 8, 2019 Share Posted February 8, 2019 For some reason I don't get much warning. I usually just start feeling warmth. I've felt on the verge of an accident and been able to make it and other times I swore I could hold a bit longer and was wrong. Sometimes though as I am clenching/squeezing desperately to hold and some pee escapes in spurts each time I squeeze hard I usually have seconds before a lot more follows. Quote Link to comment
Ell19 231 Posted February 8, 2019 Share Posted February 8, 2019 I've never really managed to hold to the point that I've lost control. I've had a few leaks but they've usually been semi deliberate when I've known I could get away with it or due to sneezing or other things that have jolted me. I'd like to do a hold until I actually lose control and wet myself, so I know it was my absolute limit, but I just haven't been able to get there before giving in before. Quote Link to comment
DeltaFoxtrot 173 Posted February 8, 2019 Share Posted February 8, 2019 1 hour ago, Ell19 said: I've never really managed to hold to the point that I've lost control. I've had a few leaks but they've usually been semi deliberate when I've known I could get away with it or due to sneezing or other things that have jolted me. I'd like to do a hold until I actually lose control and wet myself, so I know it was my absolute limit, but I just haven't been able to get there before giving in before. Drink 8oz of water every 30 mins. The first couple of times holding becomes uncomfortable go pee like normal. Eventually your bladder will tire and you'll start going no matter how hard you clench. Quote Link to comment
Ell19 231 Posted February 8, 2019 Share Posted February 8, 2019 2 minutes ago, DeltaFoxtrot said: Drink 8oz of water every 30 mins. The first couple of times holding becomes uncomfortable go pee like normal. Eventually your bladder will tire and you'll start going no matter how hard you clench. I have done holds to the point of being very very desperate one after the other and not seemed to tire. However these were long holds without drinking anything extra to normal so there would be several hours between going and being desperate again. I tend not to do fast desperation because I don't enjoy the feeling the same but that might be why I haven't got to the point of losing control yeah, I'll consider giving that a go Quote Link to comment
Brittanybunny 1,494 Posted February 8, 2019 Share Posted February 8, 2019 When i start dripping and not being able to stop, ik my body is naturally gonna release the rest like a hose on full blast Quote Link to comment
1wetfetish 9 Posted February 9, 2019 Share Posted February 9, 2019 I can't lose control. I've tried so many times and I just can't. After it starts to hurt too much, I wind up giving up and intentionally relaxing enough to pee just to ease the pain. Quote Link to comment
Ian Newton 299 Posted February 9, 2019 Share Posted February 9, 2019 For me, I can feel my bladder start to spasm and almost push against me, forcing it's contents downwards. Then I spurt, and can't hold the rest, no matter how hard I clench. Quote Link to comment
kevy19 104 Posted February 10, 2019 Share Posted February 10, 2019 I am a leaker! I get to a point when I'm just so desperate I start to leak little spurts out which I can't stop and have no control over I have been this way since about 5 or 6 years old I might last another 15 to 20 mins leaking little bits now as an adult like this when I was a child maybe 5 mins max when I got to this stage. Then on one of the little spurts, my muscles just seem to give out and I can't stop that spurt which develops quickly into a full-on flood and pee stream! Kev, Quote Link to comment
Urgebarer 1 Posted January 28 Share Posted January 28 As a male it feels like the urge to pee is so intense like the pee is pushing to come out at the tip of the penis and if you relax it will come out. And then eventually no matter what I do it comes out Quote Link to comment
Waittowee 136 Posted February 4 Share Posted February 4 For me itâs a really really intense urge sensation down there - the pricking, tickling pushing sensation really ramped up - and the feel of that being really hard to clench against. Like I canât clench hard enough, the muscles almost feel fluttery. Quote Link to comment
Nc-runner-guy 220 Posted February 4 Share Posted February 4 I feel like Iâm clenching hard but pee comes out slowly. Also a like spasm feel as I clench. I squeeze expecting to hold but some escapes. Quote Link to comment
wettingman 1,584 Posted February 4 Share Posted February 4 Of course my bladder has felt increasingly full and stretched fir some time. The pressure moves downward into my penis, setting near the tip. Clenching my sphincter helps for a while and feels great. Bladder spasms periodically intensify the pressure at my pee hole. The enjoyable "pain" becomes sharp and stinging. I clench my muscles as tightly as possible to keep my pee from coming out ,which feels awesome, kind of like I am going to ejaculate in a way.  Near the end of my ability to hold it in It ** feels like pee has seeped into the slit of ny pee hole. The pee's pressure becomes much more intense and deep. I realize that tightening my sphincter is no longer having any effect , it is like it is no longer responding, my pee is about to come out uncontrollably.  At first with help of squeezing with my handthe leaks are small and slow., getting just the tip of my dick wet. But before long I experience bigger spurts, getting my pants wet. The sensation that my pee is about to come out ,with my briefs already wet is one of my favorites. Eventually, the spurts become a slow steady unstoppable leak. My sphincter is clamped shut but pee is forcing it way past the reduced opening . It feels amazing.  I finally let go peeing hard for a long 30- 40 seconds or more. Ahhh. ** One thing I have to mention is even though when I am about to lose control, with pee feeling like it is pressing against my pee hole it actually is not quite there yet. Male sphincter is located at the base of the penis, where the urethra exits the bladder. There is nothing at all to keep it in past that point. It is the point of no return. Although squeezing my dick my hold the flow back for a short time ,all my urine is still in my bladder not my penis. The effect is putely psychological. A few drops might sneak through but as soon as i relax my hand slightly it is coming out. Once urine flows into the urethra for real, trapping it there with your hand becomes excruciatingly painful ,like my dick is about to rupture, or it's on fire forcing any male to stop squeezing. I have learned that although pee feels like it is at the tip when it isn't has a neurological cause. Ever doubtful , I waited until I felt like my pee was going to come out. I used my fingers to spread my pee hole open , and nothing. No pee came out. I took a pix to look and there was no urine near ther. Sorry I am long winded but this is my favorite topic and I try to describe how the about to come out ,and lose control of my bladder in ad much detail as I can. OldWetGuy 1 Quote Link to comment
OldWetGuy 1,159 Posted February 4 Share Posted February 4 No need to apologize for taking the time to describe the feelings in detail. I used to go through the stages you describe, but now that Iâm past retirement age, I find that Iâm  back to the way it was before puberty. I hold through the pain, perhaps leak a spurt or two, and then the pain disappears and Iâm peeing like a firehoseđŠđ Quote Link to comment
wettingman 1,584 Posted February 5 Share Posted February 5 (edited) 5 hours ago, OldWetGuy said: No need to apologize for taking the time to describe the feelings in detail. I used to go through the stages you describe, but now that Iâm past retirement age, I find that Iâm  back to the way it was before puberty. I hold through the pain, perhaps leak a spurt or two, and then the pain disappears and Iâm peeing like a firehoseđŠđ Actually I am 71 years old ,retired as well 4.5 years ago now Edited February 5 by wettingman (see edit history) OldWetGuy 1 Quote Link to comment
T8O1 71 Posted February 5 Share Posted February 5 Iâve had two genuine accidents in my life, and both times I remember exactly how it felt. holding it for as long as I can, then a lot of my lower body starts clenching. Then right near the end, within 15 seconds or so, my bladder muscles almost go numb, like I canât control them. Not to say I release, but more like I am at the mercy of my own body, and as soon as it decides to push my bladder, itâs out of my hands (and into my pants lol) As someone who is more terrified of the public humiliation of walking home in soaked pants than the excitement and thrill of a genuine accident, this was a bit of a nightmare for me đ„Čđ Quote Link to comment
hemakesherwet 52 Posted February 6 Share Posted February 6 Sometimes there's a bit of a tingly feeling in a penis and you feel that the flow will come very soon with the muscles. Very often though it's just holding, keep holding but hey why there's warmth in my underwear? It just leaks regardless. Both feel amazing. Quote Link to comment
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