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Is this fetish "normal"?


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2 hours ago, qwertyrert said:

I just have the curiosity if the people that don't like this fetish find it like "normal". Did you told a person of this? How did he or she react?

You would have to define "normal" and in regards to what. To which, I would personally insert "a fetish of regular interest by at least 30% - 40% or greater the population. At least in men who get mindlessly horny easily and much more frequently.

Ideally, anything that's a "fetish" is automatically an oddity since a fetish (as we regularly use the term) deals with obsessions outside the normal flow of intercourse. Black leather for instance (like gloves and boots) have nothing to do with the success of sexual intercourse, or dictation of the arousal thereof (like large breasts, tight ass, big dick, etc,). So in that regard, yes it's abnormal. One proof of this is the limit of omorashi compared to general nudity for pornography.

But what about compared to other fetishes? We actually have some studies (not large ones, but there) that consistently support less than 2% of interest. Our fetish also consistently makes it on Top 10 Weirdest / Strangest Fetish lists.

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So far, everyone I've told (a very small number of people) have found it gross, strange, and extremely distasteful. Those who didn't were still further weirded out by the fact my subjects must be clothed.

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43 minutes ago, noobishlord said:

What is "normal" anyway?  Can it be eaten?

Well, they say you are what you eat... 

If that’s how you get ‘normal’ then I am seriously deficient with my daily intake. No, i would not like a supplement for that ?

I guess I’ll stop being an ass and actually contribute now.

Q: is this fetish normal?

A1: I’d at least call it ‘normalized’. As in, people definitely know about it. It’s got its taboos, as it revolves around bodily functions which can range from [sort of impolite] to [highly private and inappropriate] in general discussion depending on the crowd you’re with. So I guess it’s normal in the sense that you might disgust, but not really surprise, a vanilla by saying you’ve tried it/would like to try.

A2: Normal as in “socially acceptable behavior”? Yes and no. The world is a very fast-paced place nowadays, and overworking yourself is so highly glorified. (In my culture at least. I’m from the US, and there are heavy cultural pressures to work yourself into the ground or you’re less of a person). People who are seen doing things like skipping meals, cutting back on sleep, and jam packing their schedule until they practically don’t have time to breathe are the people who are praised for their dedication and commitment. It’s not a huge leap to have the same feeling of compassion/respect for someone who holds their bladder until they’ve put themselves in a situation of potential embarrassment because they were too busy/focused. Those feelings wouldn’t be the same if your audience knew you’d done that to yourself intentionally, but the fetish itself can go under the radar as a busy day with unfortunate consequences.

A3: Are you still a normal/acceptable person for having this fetish? Again with the “what is normal” routine. Everybody has a hobby/fixation that draws on their “reward system” in their brain. Something that makes the brain tell the body “this feels good”. Some people’s brains reward them for skydiving or binge eating, some people feel the rush having a potty accident. Some people spend their time and money on collectibles or assembling model cars or painting tiny figurines, but some spend their time and money of diapers or working out the best hold.

Hobbies and fetishes aren’t exactly the same, no. However, it draws on the same reward system, the reward is just different. Whether the physical sensations, the emotional impact, or the expectations surrounding it all is what triggers it, it’s something your brain has decided deserving of some happy-juice hormones. 

Thats all I got.

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Guest qwertyrert

My question is because I said it to a friend and he said like oh it's normal it's not anything strange and I was like... Do the people that don't have this fetish, like seeing a girl desperate? 

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I'm really not an expert on this stuff, but just about everyone has some kind of fetish and from what I heard it might be more unusual to find someone without them.

A lot of people without the fetish, especially if they don't find pee to be funny, will be disgusted by it. Of course scat/messing fetishes are considered more disgusting. A lot of people would probably be weirded out by the fact that people actually take pleasure in peeing themselves, more so than having a fetish for others doing so.

But, there are a lot of people here, and probably more who just lurk on here without signing up. So it's not really that unusual in the long run, despite what a lot of people without the fetish would think. As something that's kinda "naughtier" or "dirtier", it could be something easier to have a fetish for. I know it's along those lines that it became a fetish for me while leaving my wam interest clean.

It doesn't seem to be as widely known as foot or bondage fetishes, though, but then, the fact that there is a site specifically for people with this fetish says something, not every fetish has a site like this.

Furthermore, I've been told repeatedly that there are weirder and more extreme fetishes than this, and that even my scat fetish pales in comparison to a lot of them. There are fetishes for fire/burning, dismemberment, blood, death, and many more things, as well as other things that are completely innocuous, which arguably makes it weirder.

And remember, this fetish is completely harmless as long as you're not forcing it on anyone, vandalizing people's property by peeing all over it, or making someone who wet themselves feel more uncomfortable. If you're not doing any of those, having this fetish does not make you a bad person, nor satisfying it in a harmless way. Buggy summed that up pretty good in A3. And the omorashi goddess and other mods of this site fiercely enforce that no one here do anything immoral.

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Being pretty active member of a local kink community in my area and attending kink/fetish based events on a regular basis, I don't think that "normal" is a good definition for any fetish, there is no "normal" or "abnormal" fetishes.

What does mean "normal" for you fetish wise anyway?

Common? Certainly not, comparing to many other fetishes omorashi is a rare one. As I figured, many people don't even know that pee fetish can include anything beside golden showers or diapers/ageplay.

Innocent/softcore? I don't know. I know people who consider a simple rope harness over a sweater as kinky play, and I know people who enjoy shocking others with electricity to the level of burns on the skin. I guess everyone has their own perception of softcore and hardcore.

Accepted by others? Probably not very much. Many of the kinky people I know would give a try to rope play, flogging and some other kinks even if they're not sure they will like it, but majority of them has any pee play as their hard limit. They don't necessary judge, but they're not opened to give it a try or do it to indulge a partner.

We can go on and on, but I think everyone has their own definition of "normal". For one person it's normal to never have sex before marriage, for another one it's normal to get hung upside down on a rope while being beaten with a yard stick. ? 

I never spoke or opened up about this fetish to anyone vanilla (not kink-inclined person) so I can't really speak of their reactions much.

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I actually talked to a friend about this about weeks ago.. Well, we don't know each other THAT well, we only had met in person once before. But he invited me out to go to some gay bars with him, and I went.. After a while of hanging out, we were talking about stuff, and the topic of sex comes up.. I decided to be bold and show him my Omorashi/Pee Desperation Tumblr blog and ask him if he thought it was weird.. He said no, not at all.. Lol. 

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Simply put Yes and no, depending on who you ask. If the person you ask is very open minded or just quite chill then yeah, it’s normal and they won’t care. If said person is very uniform, vanilla and otherwise against many things different then it’s a definite no. In reality you just have to remember that everybody has their own thing, which logically makes any kink normal, just depending on what it is makes it uncommon.

if your still a tad unsure, put it into perspective. Peeing your pants is a lot more tame than many of the things out there. But as I said, everybody has their own thing.

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Well, no fetish is technically "normal" but I think I understand what your asking.

To be honest with you though, nobody without the fetish sees it as "normal", because to them, somebody pissing themselves gives them no sexual pleasure at all.

The best way to figure out how people probably look at this fetish is to think about a common fetish you're not into, for me its leather, I just don't see the appeal of a woman dressed from head to toe in skin-tight animal skin. But a lot of people do, some of them probably can't understand how I DON'T find it attractive.  I don't see the fetish as normal even though it is one of the most common fetishes out there and the reason for that is I don't find it attractive, I can't relate to it for that reason, so it just comes off as "weird" to me, and that's how most fetishes are viewed by people who don't have them.

For omorashi specifically, I think that it's generally viewed as a "weird" fetish, with a decent amount of people finding it gross, but most probably find it more funny than gross. 

So is it normal? Nope, no fetishes are and there ain't anything wrong with that.

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In regards to bringing up an omorashi fetish with you partner, I think if you brought it up to 10 different partners you would get 10 very different reactions. 

This isn't the most straight-forward approach, but I believe that easing a partner into a fetish like this is generally going to yield a more positive outcome. I would do something like the following, assuming she seems open and interested in each stage:

1. mention that you'd be really interested in seeing her pee on the toilet sometime

2. after she does it, tell her how much you enjoyed it and that you thought it was sexy

3. eventually express an interest in seeing her pee in the shower 

4. again, make sure you are expressing to her how much you enjoy it

5. eventually see if she would be willing to do it through a bathing suit or underwear

6. If the two of you are comfortable enough to be doing these sorts of things together, I think you should feel free to completely open up and fully disclose your specific omo-interests.

It's always best to honest with a partner, but sometimes the initial shock of hearing that your partner is into omorashi can kill things before they start. Just my two cents, but I've found that easing someone into it leads to better outcomes and both parties are happier.

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On 10/31/2018 at 3:24 AM, qwertyrert said:

I just have the curiosity if the people that don't like this fetish find it like "normal". Did you told a person of this? How did he or she react?

I told my girlfriend who is not into it. 

She didn't find it normal at all, but a bit strange. 

As she said, we are all weird in our own way - she likes  BDSM witch some people might finde strange. 

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On 11/1/2018 at 9:58 PM, despleak said:

In regards to bringing up an omorashi fetish with you partner, I think if you brought it up to 10 different partners you would get 10 very different reactions. 

According to ratio mathematics, probability, and actual studies that DO exist on the topic, most likely not 10 for 10 different answers. 

Most people report not only not being interested in or aroused by peeing fetish, they report it as a turn-off. In some survey studies, not one woman said they're into or would consider it, despite many being aware of it and usually less than 1% men say arousal from any watersports is less than 5 on a 1-10 scale.

 

Scientifically, mathematically, statistically, and by numerous articles made about weird fetishes, we are objectively without a doubt abnormal, even in the kink community.

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On 11/1/2018 at 1:03 PM, Ajax7408 said:

Watersports/Squirting is very popular already so I'd imagine it wouldn't be difficult to become introduced to omorashi through that seeing as squirting is urine anyway

I very much hope it is, because in that case I have been peed on while giving oral sex ?

David

13 hours ago, Slater said:

According to ratio mathematics, probability, and actual studies that DO exist on the topic, most likely not 10 for 10 different answers. 

Most people report not only not being interested in or aroused by peeing fetish, they report it as a turn-off. In some survey studies, not one woman said they're into or would consider it, despite many being aware of it and usually less than 1% men say arousal from any watersports is less than 5 on a 1-10 scale.

 

Scientifically, mathematically, statistically, and by numerous articles made about weird fetishes, we are objectively without a doubt abnormal, even in the kink community.

I think you have to be a bit wary of studies like that. I mean where the people interviewed in private, or were their friends present.

 

David

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Side note: We can't say for certain that squirt is pee (however lovely the idea may be to us)- research into the female body still has a long way to go. Considering we only figured out what the clitoris looked like a few years ago, I'm gonna wait and see. And also trust the thousands of women who can squirt and consider them separate.

In general- this kink isn't normal, and for most people it does little to nothing, but it's a long way from the peripheries. Omo.org is a thriving online community and a lot of kinks/fetishes just don't have that. The site staff probably know how many signups there've been to this site, and we could compare that number to other kink sites (taking into account how long the site's been live, the fact that more people will stick around a site that's already active, etc) to get a decent picture of how omorashi compares to other stuff.

I think that quite a large proportion of women get something out of holding their pee- it makes sense anatomically.

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