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(Any fetish really but mainly omorashi)

I actually want to come out and say that I do. One reason I hate myself. I wish I was normal sometimes, or better yet just be asexual and dull. Save time and other issues.

I don't know how to undo or not be, short of castration (which I'd actually do if I had the money). I've been into omorashi since I was 4. 

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Never once. Omorashi is magical and magnificent. I have never before and never will regret a single minute spent indulging in this fetish. It is just THE BEST. I've come to terms with my quirk an

I was really embarrassed/ashamed of this when I first realized i was into omorashi. I denied it a lot and I'm not sure where/when the change happened but at some point recently I started to be more ac

Eh, I don't plan on being alive more than 10 years, if that. Existing is horrible, can't wait to be dead. Won't go out of my way for it for now, but with some of my fetishes, the world is better off w

Never once. Omorashi is magical and magnificent. I have never before and never will regret a single minute spent indulging in this fetish. It is just THE BEST.

I've come to terms with my quirk and I truly hope you do as well, my friend. It's not worth doubting who you are. Grab onto what interests you and own it.

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I sort of agree. I would never want to be asexual but I often wish I could be normal. This fetish has definitely made relationships hard and the constant worrying about getting found out really sucks. I am after all a 22 year old who has never had sex and I've always been worried that if I was with normie I wouldn't be able to, like there is no sexual satisfaction without omo but I honestly don't know for sure. 

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12 minutes ago, Bulge_Lover said:

Never once. Omorashi is magical and magnificent. I have never before and never will regret a single minute spent indulging in this fetish. It is just THE BEST.

I've come to terms with my quirk and I truly hope you do as well, my friend. It's not worth doubting who you are. Grab onto what interests you and own it.

Any other fetish? 

 

What if a fetish were like dangerous or something? We can fantasize all day long, but I imagine it's pretty hellish in it's own way not being able to participate or anything. Like vore; vore is physically impossible to reenact and would surely kill someone. Especially if that was your own fetish or only things lile it. 

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I've finally reached a point several weeks ago realizing that it's more of a bothersome chore to go fix myself, and I've felt this way for quite some time. It's just a waste at this point. Like needing to eat, craving gruel, and gruel is all there is to eat, and you'd rather just go on through life without food.

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Oh yeah, I have long since accepted that I am what I am but accepting and loving aren't the same thing. I still have moments where I hate being ABDL or being into girls wetting themselves. It's put a strain on my relationship with my girlfriend because she feels inadequate due to her discomfort with those aspects of my sexuality.

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I've mostly accepted it but before I used to hate having them. Sometimes I feel it for a few moments after I'm done fantasizing or writing a fetish story.

There are still times I feel bad about having a fetish for something that can be terrible if forced on a person. I know an unwanted pee accident can be a horrible experience and I'd never wish it on anyone. But, I try to remember fictional instances are all right, or real life instances where they enjoy it or don't mind it, and based on stories here there have been many of those.

Other times my fantasies about characters from one of my favorite shows even hindered my ability to enjoy it, and I'm trying to find balance between those fantasies and enjoying the show (which typically doesn't play any of my fetishes except the butt fetish). Though the reverse of not wanting to fetishize the characters while I'm watching the show, but being able to enjoy the show, is fine, it lets me enjoy the show for what it is and leave the fantasies to when I'm not watching it.

But, it did help a lot knowing there are many other people with the same fetishes, and others with even weirder ones.

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Yes.

It has been more than a year since i broke with my last girlfriend and when im seeing omorashi videos, i think sometimes why im not seen "mainstream" porn.

Occasionally I think im more interested in watching girls peeing herself than finding a partner. Lol.

But then, i think again i am a completely normal person with a delicious fethis ?

 

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Depends with fetish you relate to...

Do I regret being into Omorashi? No its a big part of me and my life. I love the feelings I get from it. I've been embarrased by it in the past, now I go whenever I feel like it, within reason,   As soon as the urge enters my brain I know im going to get wet. Sometimes I have to compromise with myself which is a fun battle.

For example being at cinema and wanted to wet myself but also thinking of the guilt someone else would end up sitting in it or cleaning it up pets me off and with these battles I dont wet as it would not be fair. Instead I would go for a walk after being even more desperate to go which I tend to wet out of harms way.

As Omoroshi isnt my only fetish I will continue to say..

I am also into mud, gunge and food stuff love getting caked up mainly clothed. I sometimes regret this as I could be walking in the park and if I see a muddy puddle before I have thought it through such as;  do I have a change a clothing,  I am already plastered.

I have had severe reactions to mosquito bites in the past due to not thinking to having to valet the car as I had no protection for seats. These days I keep a small bag in car for such instances, ? Still doesnt stop the insects biting lol.

I have a diaper fetish which I also enjoy. Love wearing a wet diaper in public which links in with Omorashi. Humiliation feels great..

I am also slightly into Coprophilia which as soon as I start this one I have instant regrets and don't know why I do it heat of the moment I suppose. Although I find suppositories fun.

So as you can see I have a varied ammount of fetishes in my life.

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I do have this feeling quite often, but for a completely selfish reason.

I personally feel frustrated and unsatisfied with this fetish, as someone who is strictly into male omo, and the clear lack of male omo content there is, I have a hard time finding anything that satisfies me. It makes it even more difficult that the guy I have to personally find attractive for it to be a turn on, if they're not then it's more of a turn off, because I really don't want to think about people I don't find to be sexual attractive in a sexual way (and no, I'm not saying that you should delete your videos or pictures because someone, including me, doesn't find it attractive, I'm just trying to explain my situation.)

This often leaves me looking for artwork of male anime characters I like wetting themselves (or being in diapers). However, there is often a lack of that too, if you notice the dire amount of male anime omorashi content on this website (or most websites.) Similarly to the mention above about not enjoying people who I don't find attractive wetting themselves (it's like thinking of people you don't find attractive doing anything sexual), if the art isn't that good of quality, I have a difficult time enjoying it, and most of the male omo drawings tend to be more amateurish. Sadly, I'm not good enough an artist either to satisfy myself, and it usually does more for me if someone else draws it (gets my mind thinking more.)

Whenever I do find work that I like that has male omo, usually fanfiction, as there is a good amount of that at least, I usually end up looking at or re-reading that material until it doesn't do much for me anymore, leaving me unsatisfied.

It just feels like a fetish that I can never be satisfied with, and considering that it's the fetish that probably turns me on more than anything else, it feels sexual frustrating.

I will say, though, that there is a good thing about it. Due to the lack of male omo content, I do feel like it exercises my creativity to day dream about incidences where guys wet themselves. Not going on the internet much before I was about ten, I always had to imagine the material for myself, which probably expanded my creativity. It also pushes me to become a better artist to be able to satisfy this fetish. I just wish there was more of the content that I liked out there so that I could at least feel a bit satisfied.

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I did, for a long while. Still do grapple with it sometimes, knowing that there's a part of me that not even my family knows about. I know it's not technically lying but it sure feels like it. 

As a result, I guess I've sort of developed an "alternate" persona for omorashi. Kinda like a Bruce Wayne/Batman thing... or a Dr. Jekyll/Mr. Hyde thing, idk lol. I am who I am in real life, and then I'm Foxlover here. Two separate worlds. It's the best way I've found of accepting and embracing this part of my life.

Is it healthy? Idk, but it's worked thus far XD

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@Dougspee I know the feeling. Even though my thing is for female omo and there's more of that, I don't often find a whole lot with the characters I find most attractive, in the outfits I find most attractive, so I have to write my own stories about them and use them to satisfy my fetishes. It didn't used to feel the same, but as it's over 75% of what I have to go on for that, I'm used to reading my own stories for fetishy pleasure

@Foxlover I kind of feel like I've developed an "alternate" persona too. That's why I made my title "omorashi werewolf". Though it feels less detached since mostly embracing my fetishes.

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I was really embarrassed/ashamed of this when I first realized i was into omorashi. I denied it a lot and I'm not sure where/when the change happened but at some point recently I started to be more accepting of it. It's an aspect of my sexuality. I have, however, felt a lot of internalized hatred when it comes to relationships. I feel like this is something that I can't share up front like a lot of people can with their other kins when couples have the "kink talk".

You're not alone in this and hopefully being a member of this site and making friends with similar interests will help you embrace it for everything that it is ?

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No, never I truly and honestly don't have any regrets what so ever or any other bad feelings about my fetish! I only have very happy good feelings and memories of my fetish for Omorashi. I kind of fell in love with this whole pee thing at  4 years old, when allowed just to go pee in my speedo, swim trunks on the beach when I liked plus I had a pretty laid back mum and older sister The whole pee thing  was no big deal  as I grew up and at this young age I loved the thoughts of doing something so naughty and taboo with full adults permission. Even in my late teens when this all got sexual I never thought it odd or myself odd or wanted to change or stop doing this far from it in fact, and then around that time I found some early letters in my uncles Fiesta top shelve mag of that period saying about wetting and watersports I knew from then on I was not alone here. Two years later by total chance, I found a wonderful girl also into this she became my wonderful wife. I say don't analyze just enjoy and this has never taken over my life you have to keep it in context and enjoy even after losing my wife to cancer I still like to explore new angles of this fab fetish of ours. I know like seeing other men wet something a few years ago I never thought would interest me! Enjoy I say.  Kev. 

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Regarding Omo, no, I don't have any regrets. Not one bit. I really love everything about it, and never have gotten into trouble by it or done any harm to anyone.

As for crossdressing, well... I don't regret it much, but I'd regret it less or not at all if my parents were more accepting of it. 

I have other fetishes, but those haven't gotten me into trouble... yet.

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To be honest yeah, I totally relate to what you say. My fetish is exclusive, meaning I'm not into traditional sexuality at all. In fact, the thought of having sex is kind of horrifying to me. The problem is, I still long for romantic/emotional relationships, but I just don't know if it will ever happen, since sex is really important to most people. I can't speak for everyone, and I really hope no one gets offended by this, but I feel like what I have is a mental disorder. Sexuality is supposed to be about... well, sex. That's why sexuality exists. But, by some horrible mistake, that's not how it works in my brain. I really wish I could just take a pill and be normal. I also do wish I could asexual like you said, almost anything would be better than what I am. 

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The first thing to say is that I have no choice. Any signs of female desperation (watched anywhere, usually out of the blue), will immediately turn me on, regardless of what I am doing. It would be hopeless for me to try and live without this fetish.

Now the drama begins. Of course, the girl does her best to hide her need to pee. But I am extremely sensitive for it, so she will not be successful as far as I am concerned. But very often my impression is that all the others around are not in the least interested in her state, it is just me. I feel isolated; I don't know if all the others hide their interest or if really nobody else feels any glimmer of arousal; I don't know if the girl is suffering for real or if she is secretly enjoying her predicament; I do not even know how abnormal it is to reflect this. I try to hide my arousal as the girl tries to hide her need, but probably I am failing as she is, for a connaisseur. Maybe she realises that I am interested (girls often get it very quickly), but she will not know what to think about me. I'd love to let her know that her state is turning me on, but it is almost impossible to approach a girl who you do not know, in public, right on THIS topic. Maybe she just feels uncomfortable with the pressure of her bladder and nothing else. I'd just be a weirdo  for her if I indicate what her need to pee does to me. Our topic, our inclination, is not allowed in our society. I'd rather say: We are not allowed. And therefore we keep it under cover. The result is that nothing will happen in the described everyday scene.

On the other hand, I have no problem in dating girls. But they have a certain idea of my personality, of course induced by my interests and my activities. All these, however, are light-years away from and seemingly completely incompatible with this fetish. I have had what people would call "normal partnerships" - but I am sure that these girls would have fled in horror, had I opened up about my fetish.

Well, I won't exaggerate. There have been situations in between. But essentially, a long-term partnership and my fetish seem to be irreconcilable. In other words, my fetish prevents a satisfying long-term sex life. I even observe a certain thrill whenever a "new" girl turns up in the net who is into holding and wetting; no good symptom when I think of a steady partnership. I am not even sure if my desires would be really satisfied with a partner who likes to regularly wet herself.

I can't decide on my fetish. I have it, period. It triggers massive arousals and fantastic masturbation. But if you ask me seriously and if I could do anything about it - I'd rather not have it. At least in the net (e.g., on this board!) I find people who understand what it is about, although I'll never know who they really are. Maybe the girl next door is into omorashi, or the nearest girl into omorashi lives is a distance of dozens of miles. I can't tell, and will never. It is frustrating to know that the girls I dream about do exist - but are out of reach.

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On 7/26/2018 at 12:28 AM, Slater said:

(Any fetish really but mainly omorashi)

I actually want to come out and say that I do. One reason I hate myself. I wish I was normal sometimes, or better yet just be asexual and dull. Save time and other issues.

I don't know how to undo or not be, short of castration (which I'd actually do if I had the money). I've been into omorashi since I was 4. 

I can't condone mutilating yourself, but I would absolutely castrate myself if it were free to prevent this fetish from influencing me.

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