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I just found a new way to broach the subject of wetting.........I was talking to an older female pupil (who has become as much a friend as a pupil)  (I teach English and Western Culture to Eastern Europeans)....I mentioned that I have a friend at University who is suffering from stress and has started wetting the bed and asked my advice.    I mentioned that advice and she remarked that she wished she had (teen pampers) when she was having school stresses.....I asked if she had gone through the same problems and she blushingly admitted that she had been a bed wetter.   She told me that I was a very caring and understanding person to help and not make fun...she says she see's me in a new light ???   =   opportunity to talk more on the subject.       So you see.....even if your friend at University is imaginary.....a very innocent conversation can be had, during which you can 'see which way the wind blows'

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I think I see you in a new light also. The way you went about discussing this with a student of yours, to "see which way the wind blows", seems both creepy and unprofessional. She thinks that you are a caring and understanding person, but if she knew about the intentions you had behind that "innocent conversation", she might think differently.

Perhaps it would help if you explained what, exactly, your intentions are behind discussing this with her, to maybe help me understand, so that I don't make an ass of myself by failing to understand what you are trying to do. Are you discussing this to acquire more bed wetting stories from her, or is it because you want to get to know her better and find out if she shares your kink? Regardless of the reason, it still seems odd that you are trying to do either, as her educator.

Also, this part is just confusing:

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I mentioned that I have a friend at University who is suffering from stress and has started wetting the bed and asked my advice.  I mentioned that advice and she remarked that she wished she had (teen pampers) when she was having school stresses...

Do you mean that she mentioned having a friend at University, who is dealing with stress and in need of advice, at which point you provided it? For someone who teaches English, it is surprising that your post is this confusing.

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8 hours ago, WetG/F said:

I just found a new way to broach the subject of wetting.........I was talking to an older female pupil (who has become as much a friend as a pupil)  (I teach English and Western Culture to Eastern Europeans)....I mentioned that I have a friend at University who is suffering from stress and has started wetting the bed and asked my advice.    I mentioned that advice and she remarked that she wished she had (teen pampers) when she was having school stresses.....I asked if she had gone through the same problems and she blushingly admitted that she had been a bed wetter.   She told me that I was a very caring and understanding person to help and not make fun...she says she see's me in a new light ???   =   opportunity to talk more on the subject.       So you see.....even if your friend at University is imaginary.....a very innocent conversation can be had, during which you can 'see which way the wind blows'

I'm with Anubis on this one, this seems like a creepy kind of conversation to have with a student given this is regarding a fetish on your end and she doesn't even know it. Please explain further?

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I never discussed in any way my kinks with my students but I did have (university) student who was ver open about herself. She had been out for a few days and came back and before class started she told the class about what had happened. I was the only male. She had been hospitalized with very painful ovarian cysts. She described how they inserted a Foley catheter. (indwelling that drains into a urine bag) Someone asked if it hurt. She said yes and it caused a uti.  And the uti made her wet her pants. That day at the end of class she asked me to leave the room unlocked. She wanted to clean the chair (sold surface) because she had wet her pant. I said why hadn't she left to go to the restroom. She said she wouldn't have made it anyway. The next class meeting she told the others she was wearing a diaper and she was wet, I told her I would understand if she went home to change. She said no she wanted to stay for the class. I did my very best to be professional and not give away how it messed with me. This happened several years after I was injured so regularly cathed myself and I was wearing diapers 24/7. I made no mention of anything about myself. I had been in a wheelchair for several years and at least nobody ever asked me about anything. 

Several years later I had a student tell me she was going to have a cystoscopy. I told her I had had them a few times and there was nothing to worry about but it would take a day to recover. She wanted to know if it would be painful. I told her I had no feeling there so I could not answer. After it was over and she came back to class she told me it went well. I have no idea whether she made the connection between the fact I had no feeing  and what would happen if my bladder filled. 

@WetG/F, I am going to come down on the side of saying you went very close to the line but I'm not certain you crossed it. Your student/friend should never learn about your kink, unless she volunteers without prompting that she has a similar kink.  

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WetG/F I was enjoying your story until right at the end. You seemed to suggest that this conversation had revealed anything about the student's leaning on the kink side of the topic, which not only is out of line for a teacher to be trying to discern about your own students, but I don't get the impression that this was a good example of a conversation in which such a conclusion was reached. But I think you have plenty of opportunity to make this a great story going forward. Your student was probably made very happy to have someone to confide in. I have let many people confide in me over the years, and there is a freeing effect it has on people. I can see the weight lift from their back and shoulders, and they start to hold their head higher and face life with more confidence. If you continue down this road of letting people confide in you, and being caring with them, then you can be doing a lot of good for this world.

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I am a private teacher...this was a not a child....probably older than most of you people.      I do teach English on occasion, but mostly I teach motivational skills, interview techniques, presentation skills.......this poor child that you are all protecting  was a pupil a long time ago and even then she was over 20  and is now more of a long time friend who checks in with me regularly.      I know that so many of you people are young and shy and maybe have difficulties with getting to know people? broaching subjects such as your fetish.  I had hoped to give some you ideas to work on as it is very common subject and repeats over and over again..how do I broach the subject.  How do I mention, how do I say...?  I really do not suggest that my 'former' and now full grown woman and a  (Dr of Mathematics) student is leaning toward the fetish...just that she revealed something...in that she had the same stress related bed wettings in he first year at university.      As she is not a g/f or potential g/f I didn't in this case use my tried and tested method of mentioning former girlfriends who had ......first the bedwetting problem and then moving on to admitting (if there is a favourable reaction) that they were actually doing it on purpose and liked it and I got to like it too.  I hope this explanation meets with the Mods approval...this 'child' in question is probably older than the moderator.     I now see that I should have explained this.    If any of you do need any on line motivational teaching etc.....you probably can't afford me......wink.      Edit.......funny thing is that In the past have had a couple of students slightly older than me......and as their teacher.....I tended to think of them as younger than me even though they were not.....it's this teacher pupil thing where teacher is always the boss???  Thank you for the support....those of you who handled it well and saw that there was more to it than the traditional 'creepy teacher hitting on the young girl'    I,m betting she (pupil -well travelled all over the world, intelligent and articulate - partly thanks to my teaching I hope)....... could probably teach some of you a thing or two....wink....again.   I may even tell her about this and see if she thinks it is funny.

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This is creepy. Admittedly it is a bit LESS creepy as she's an adult... as I do find age to be "an issue". It's just not the "only issue." Or even necessarily the main issue.

Cut it out. Highly unprofessional. The only difference with her being an adult is isn't also illegal and meaning you need professional help... this just means you need to learn professional barriers better... I don't see how or why you'd bring up your initial statement except to get a creepy voyeuristic pleasure out of her.

She's your student. She isn't there to provide sexual gratification for your fantasies. Granted, no person is there for that, that probably came off wrong, but you get what I mean. Profession line WAY crossed. Legal line not crossed, as at least she wasn't a kid.

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She WAS,  my student some years ago, she is more like an old friend now....and how did I deceive??  I do have a friend at Uni who did confide in me.....I asked her (my older friend) for advice but in a roundabout way if anything.....I told my 'Older than you' friend about the problem and my solution and she tacitly agreed that I had done the right thing, her compliment to me was unsolicited.     I gave the deception thing out as a device to all those young guys here, who repeatedly, time after time after time, ask how they can broach the subject of their fetish, to girl/boy friends...... it is for them to judge whether they use it on friends, students, or whatever is their whim..........It is very odd that some people accuse me of deception..it means you are quick to judge and didn't read my post properly.      So I must repeat...my student...WAS a student years ago...IS a woman who is much older than many of you....is... a Dr of Mathematics of some sort of specialisation, I never asked what, mathematics is not my field...........could show a lot of you a thing or two.......is well travelled,  many more countries that I, and I have some dozens under my belt.   I suspect  the fact that I do have a friend at Uni who was also a student a couple of years ago and still confides in me, is anathema to people who find it hard even to make friends......I often part with my students on the basis that we have a continuing friendship and that I will also give them help free of charge in the future on an 'ad hoc' basis.  In fact the only woman I ever fell out with was my Ex wife.  I just spotted Anubis's remark about seeing which way the wind blows??  That is part an parcel or any conversation with anyone about a new or controversial subject, there is nothing 'sinister' about it..these days everyone is dancing around their words to find out if the other guy is a Trump supporter or not....finding which way the wind blows.    Anubis just for you...and you may use this in the future should you ever make contact with a person girl/boy whatever...and get to the point where you are trying to find out 'which way the wind blows' (I,m sure you must have read my MO in the past?  I,ve posted it often enough)  OK so having digressed.....You get to the point of confidentiality.....you have been on one or two dates and you want to 'engineer' a conversation, so you ask if she is interested in your past lovers (no idea if you are into guys?? I know not the workings of their minds)  But girls are always, always interested in what kind of women you dated before them.....if they are interested in you as a prospect they definitely will want to know what they are up against and your likes and dislikes, so this opening give you an opportunity to guide the conversation around to the fact that you had a couple of bedwetters as g/fs....    ah ah??......you may say???...In my case there is No 'deception' because I had 3 in my murky past.......now this is where 'The Wind Blows' comes in......if she says  eeeewww! and refuses to talk more, you know the 'wind' is not blowing in favour of any wetting fetishes........But if she says tell me more.??   why then   ....the gates are open...    So that my dark cowl'ed aquaintance,   in a nutshell is where the 'wind blows' comes into it......but I,m sure you already know this.      Perhaps in any future posts I will put a warning at the end.......Danger, Warning...The experiences noted in this post may seem to contain....'deception'   please do not proceed to use any tips and hints that may go against your beliefs or bring  unwanted opprobrium......The originator of the post does not recommend that you deceive unless it be entirely on your own conscience.  

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If we didn't read your post properly, @WetG/F, then proofread the things you're posting before you submit them. We might not have been so quick to accuse you of deception if you had explained it properly and edited what you were saying so that we could understand it. If you failed to do that, then that's on you, not us. A post that is difficult to read is going to cause some confusion, especially when it comes to topics such as this. The way you worded things, sure looked creepy.

Seriously, it leads me to doubt that you even teach English. Maybe you never did. I've known plenty of non-English-speaking people (I've interacted with some of them on this site) who've done a better job at proofreading their posts than you have, a way better job. Even when they didn't get it right every time, they still did their best to make sure people could understand them. What you're posting honestly looks lazy. It's confusing.

Also, no one ever said that this was a child. It does not matter if you're teaching a student who is older than the vast majority of the people on this site, or even if they are older than you, if you are their instructor, then it means that you still have authority over them and that authority can still be abused. Maybe you wouldn't do that (if you really are an educator), it's hard to say, but if you did do such a thing, then it wouldn't be all that difficult for you to make sure they fail their attempts to learn another language, to prevent them from being successful after they've left your class, all because the "wind" didn't blow in a favorable direction for you. I'm not accusing you of doing this, but it's something that could happen. Helping us out by explaining yourself properly and making sure we can understand what you're saying would go a long way. It would have led to an entirely different conversation in this thread if you had done that from the start.

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Agree with Anubis. You initially posted a topic that made it seem like you were creeping on a student of yours and many people took it that way. When people called you out on it you argued against a point no one made and failed to actually properly read why people were upset with your post. Finally you have just posted a wall of text where you ramble on and it very hard to decipher your point.

Basically, I highly doubt your ability to teach English as your use of it has been atrocious so far.

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4 hours ago, WetG/F said:

But girls are always, always interested in what kind of women you dated before them.....

That is a huge, huge generalization and is obviously not true for everyone, in fact not true for most people I'd say.....

I really hope you're not an english teacher, or a teacher for that matter. You're grammar and writing style seems pretty poor with many run on sentences and weird sets of 5 or so dots followed by 5 or so spaces. And you come across as very unprofessional to me. I also find it odd how you keep feeling a need to specify how this women is older than most people on this site, and that you charge a lot of money for classes, and that you've been to many countries. It seems very fishy the way you're saying it, almost like its not true and the person you're trying to convince os yourself. I dint mean to be rude, but its just with how defensive you're getting and how you keep saying the same things over and over again. It just seems odd and makes it sound fake. And no one asked if we could afford you for an online class in motivational teaching. Why dod you even mention that? And what was that wink about?

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I almost regret coming back into this thread as trying to decipher what OP is trying to say the longer he goes on. Though in regards to the crack at my age, the age of the student in question isn't overly relevant to what people in this thread are saying, or even to whether being a professor potentially fetishizing a student is creepy. Not to offend, but I don't think anyone overly cares about what countries or degrees or whatever the hell any of the people have under their belt. From my point of view, whats important is that despite us being 14 posts in, I STILL don't know what this thread is about. OP needs to learn to be more concise, be more direct, and be more grammatically correct so people in threads like this do not become confused, or get the wrong idea as to events and intentions. As an English professor he should know, an essay with a foggy and unclear thesis is going to get an F.

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Your posts might be the least grammatically correct I've ever seen on this site. You don't even ATTEMPT to make your posts easy to read, instead, you seem to go out of your way to make every single fucking sentence as strangely worded and difficult to understand as possible, and if that wasn't enough, you blame everyone else for not completely understanding your post. 

Now, I think that one of the few things people were actually able to understand from your original post, was the age of the other person involved, it's rather silly that you thought that was the only issue people would have with your post, which was creepy in so many other ways.

I stand by my original statement "You kinda creepy." but I would also like to add "You're kind of an asshole".

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Why thank you for picking me up on my English, I use this style.....on many forums.....and It works because I don't usually have to mention that I am an educator....remember that first and foremost I would be teaching you...How to get that very important job.....How to make a very good presentation, that people don't fall asleep in, and actually walk away remembering the presentation...and most importantly remembering the 'presenter'.  How to project yourself among your co-horts.  Some of you would probably be shocked at how much will be paid by Multi National Corporations to have their up and coming stars trained in these ways, pick a wild number out of the air and they will pay it... $$$$ per hour, it would bring tears to your eyes.  My accountant said don;t think about it, just bank it, it paid for that expensive new off-roader didn't it.  Things that were taught to me by a couple of the worlds best Armed Forces, I make my money from.  Most of the other guys I knew, went on into the personal security industry.     Yes I do teach people how to construct a CV that will not go straight into the trash like so many do....so the English I teach  in that case has to be perfect down to the last dot and comma....learn to forgive my idiosyncrasies  I also spell most things the English way but use Americanisms such as 'Trash'...there is an old saying, When you take your sick car to the Mechanic, see which is his car, it will probably be a trashy heap.    Kozmo Fox you are probably right....in future I will not ramble on and keep any advice down to a bare minimum.....my methods have worked for me for many years.......The main gist of my rambling was to give advice to the shy younger people on how to go about talking to a prospective partner...I know how hard that is, I went through it and it was hell I missed the whole 'teen Love' thing, but like some people have a 'revelation' about god or some other thing, mine was how to speak to girls about anything.                 Kozmo I always thought of you as being somewhere around mid 20's and doing a great job with this place, probably with very little help, for which I have always held a deep admiration.  My 'dig' about countries visited, was actually aimed at all the Americans here and as I admit,  I am ensconced in the bowels of Europe, we have always been jealous of you. You see, to get  really good skiing most of us have to fly to another country, same with lakes and for me unrestricted off-roading...I have to go to other countries for it, you probably have it in your state or the state next door.   We Europeans are often well travelled simply by neccessity.   What else can I say in my last ramble??    Beware....The Russians are coming !!!    Seriously in the last year I have had so many Russians applying for classes, that I have had to sub-contract.   They are wanting to learn, not only English, but Western culture and they will pay handsomely for it, things must be getting better financially for them. so they are probably heading your way.  Feel sorry for them. I spoke to a prospective pupil in Kazan Russia a few days ago and he told me it snowed last week!!!  Keep up the great work.

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53 minutes ago, WetG/F said:

Why thank you for picking me up on my English, I use this style.....on many forums.....and It works because I don't usually have to mention that I am an educator....remember that first and foremost I would be teaching you...How to get that very important job.....How to make a very good presentation, that people don't fall asleep in, and actually walk away remembering the presentation...and most importantly remembering the 'presenter'.  How to project yourself among your co-horts.  Some of you would probably be shocked at how much will be paid by Multi National Corporations to have their up and coming stars trained in these ways, pick a wild number out of the air and they will pay it... $$$$ per hour, it would bring tears to your eyes.  My accountant said don;t think about it, just bank it, it paid for that expensive new off-roader didn't it.  Things that were taught to me by a couple of the worlds best Armed Forces, I make my money from.  Most of the other guys I knew, went on into the personal security industry.     Yes I do teach people how to construct a CV that will not go straight into the trash like so many do....so the English I teach  in that case has to be perfect down to the last dot and comma....learn to forgive my idiosyncrasies  I also spell most things the English way but use Americanisms such as 'Trash'...there is an old saying, When you take your sick car to the Mechanic, see which is his car, it will probably be a trashy heap.    Kozmo Fox you are probably right....in future I will not ramble on and keep any advice down to a bare minimum.....my methods have worked for me for many years.......The main gist of my rambling was to give advice to the shy younger people on how to go about talking to a prospective partner...I know how hard that is, I went through it and it was hell I missed the whole 'teen Love' thing, but like some people have a 'revelation' about god or some other thing, mine was how to speak to girls about anything.                 Kozmo I always thought of you as being somewhere around mid 20's and doing a great job with this place, probably with very little help, for which I have always held a deep admiration.  My 'dig' about countries visited, was actually aimed at all the Americans here and as I admit,  I am ensconced in the bowels of Europe, we have always been jealous of you. You see, to get  really good skiing most of us have to fly to another country, same with lakes and for me unrestricted off-roading...I have to go to other countries for it, you probably have it in your state or the state next door.   We Europeans are often well travelled simply by neccessity.   What else can I say in my last ramble??    Beware....The Russians are coming !!!    Seriously in the last year I have had so many Russians applying for classes, that I have had to sub-contract.   They are wanting to learn, not only English, but Western culture and they will pay handsomely for it, things must be getting better financially for them. so they are probably heading your way.  Feel sorry for them. I spoke to a prospective pupil in Kazan Russia a few days ago and he told me it snowed last week!!!  Keep up the great work.

Please, stop. You’re still flexing, talking about how much money you make, or at least claim to,, and let me tell you: no one cares. At all. No need to say who taught you or what you teach. And the you say you will not ramble but this entirely post is a ramble. 

As an aside, actually do have to travel interstate quite often. And for those who venture outside of our country (which we all should...), it can often be necessary to save money. For example a few years ago, me and my family were trying to find a place to ski. Bear in mind we live in a large city on the east coast. So we looked st how expensive it would be to go to Colorado, including plane tickets, hotels, ski passes, food, etc., and then we looked at how expensive it would be to go to Milano and the alps by Mont Blanc and it was actually cheaper to travel 3,000 miles to another continent to the alps than to travel 1,500 miles and stay in the same country. 

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1 hour ago, WetG/F said:

Why thank you for picking me up on my English, I use this style.....on many forums.....and It works because I don't usually have to mention that I am an educator....remember that first and foremost I would be teaching you...How to get that very important job.....How to make a very good presentation, that people don't fall asleep in, and actually walk away remembering the presentation...and most importantly remembering the 'presenter'.  How to project yourself among your co-horts.  Some of you would probably be shocked at how much will be paid by Multi National Corporations to have their up and coming stars trained in these ways, pick a wild number out of the air and they will pay it... $$$$ per hour, it would bring tears to your eyes.  My accountant said don;t think about it, just bank it, it paid for that expensive new off-roader didn't it.  Things that were taught to me by a couple of the worlds best Armed Forces, I make my money from.  Most of the other guys I knew, went on into the personal security industry.     Yes I do teach people how to construct a CV that will not go straight into the trash like so many do....so the English I teach  in that case has to be perfect down to the last dot and comma....learn to forgive my idiosyncrasies  I also spell most things the English way but use Americanisms such as 'Trash'...there is an old saying, When you take your sick car to the Mechanic, see which is his car, it will probably be a trashy heap.    Kozmo Fox you are probably right....in future I will not ramble on and keep any advice down to a bare minimum.....my methods have worked for me for many years.......The main gist of my rambling was to give advice to the shy younger people on how to go about talking to a prospective partner...I know how hard that is, I went through it and it was hell I missed the whole 'teen Love' thing, but like some people have a 'revelation' about god or some other thing, mine was how to speak to girls about anything.                 Kozmo I always thought of you as being somewhere around mid 20's and doing a great job with this place, probably with very little help, for which I have always held a deep admiration.  My 'dig' about countries visited, was actually aimed at all the Americans here and as I admit,  I am ensconced in the bowels of Europe, we have always been jealous of you. You see, to get  really good skiing most of us have to fly to another country, same with lakes and for me unrestricted off-roading...I have to go to other countries for it, you probably have it in your state or the state next door.   We Europeans are often well travelled simply by neccessity.   What else can I say in my last ramble??    Beware....The Russians are coming !!!    Seriously in the last year I have had so many Russians applying for classes, that I have had to sub-contract.   They are wanting to learn, not only English, but Western culture and they will pay handsomely for it, things must be getting better financially for them. so they are probably heading your way.  Feel sorry for them. I spoke to a prospective pupil in Kazan Russia a few days ago and he told me it snowed last week!!!  Keep up the great work.

At least use the Enter key. I'm begging you. Is English not your first language?

1 hour ago, WetG/F said:

down to the last dot and comma

1 hour ago, WetG/F said:

learn to forgive my idiosyncrasies  I also spell most things the

...missing a dot there, I believe.

 

To be a little more relevant, I'm in college and if a teacher started doing what I think you're saying you're doing to your student I think I'd leave the class.

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17 hours ago, WetG/F said:

She WAS,  my student some years ago, she is more like an old friend now....and how did I deceive??  I do have a friend at Uni who did confide in me.....I asked her (my older friend) for advice but in a roundabout way if anything.....I told my 'Older than you' friend about the problem and my solution and she tacitly agreed that I had done the right thing, her compliment to me was unsolicited.

Okay, let's see if I've got this straight. The person you were discussing this with was a former student and you used an example of a current student requesting advice about bed wetting, to get a conversation started with the former student, who is now a friend of yours, correct? If that is the case, then why not say that in your first post? If you would have said that from the beginning, your OP would have seemed less creepy, however...

17 hours ago, WetG/F said:

Anubis just for you...and you may use this in the future should you ever make contact with a person girl/boy whatever...and get to the point where you are trying to find out 'which way the wind blows' (I,m sure you must have read my MO in the past?  I,ve posted it often enough)

If I want to discuss a fetish of mine with someone else and would like to know if they have it also, I'm not going to beat around the bush and hope they spill their guts. That is what you seem to mean when you're talking about this "blowing wind" stuff. If they're a friend that I trust and they trust me, if I feel like discussing something personal, I'll just come out and ask them if it's alright to do it. If they say yes, we'll discuss it openly and honestly. I'm not interested in telling them some story about giving someone advice about a wetting problem, just so they'll say, "Aw, you're such a kind person! By the way, I like omorashi!" If I tried it, it would never work. Anyone that tries your suggested method is going to be horribly disappointed if they expect it to work.

If someone used your method for the sole purpose of getting someone they are supposedly friends with, to reveal personal, embarrassing information to them, then they're not a very good friend are they? They are a creep, pretending to be their friend. I must ask, which one are you? You cannot be both.

Also, no, I have not read your MO. I don't follow you, so I may have missed it. Perhaps you could enlighten me, since I wouldn't know where to begin, to search for it.

5 hours ago, WetG/F said:

Why thank you for picking me up on my English, I use this style.....on many forums.....and It works because I don't usually have to mention that I am an educator....remember that first and foremost I would be teaching you...How to get that very important job.....How to make a very good presentation, that people don't fall asleep in, and actually walk away remembering the presentation...and most importantly remembering the 'presenter'. 

I don't mean to be rude, but the way you have presented us with your story is the perfect example of how not to do it. If your students (if you've got any) just rambled on and on like you do, then no one is going to be interested in any presentation that they do. If they don't fall asleep, they're going to be very annoyed. I know I would be.

5 hours ago, WetG/F said:

 Yes I do teach people how to construct a CV that will not go straight into the trash like so many do....so the English I teach  in that case has to be perfect down to the last dot and comma....learn to forgive my idiosyncrasies  I also spell most things the English way

It's not the spelling, necessarily, that is the problem, it's the horrible punctuation, unclear explanations, run on sentences, and the lack of paragraphs. Goodness, I would expect a student that is still learning how to use the English language in writing, to write a post like yours. I would withhold judgment if they explained in the beginning that they're learning and not very good at it yet. It would be understandable then. Someone who teaches people how to do this, is not going to write like you do. The only word that comes to mind when you assert this is, "Bullshit!" That you even expect us to believe you, is laughable.

4 hours ago, etoile said:

At least use the Enter key. I'm begging you. Is English not your first language?

QFT! All of these walls of text are headache inducing...

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2 minutes ago, LOLC2k said:

So, after reading all your other posts, I just have to ask.  Are you teaching English "ironically"?

Either that is what he is doing, or I just fed a troll an entire meal on a silver platter. It's a good thing I was feeling generous today, otherwise, I would feel terrible about throwing all of that food for thought under the bridge. Hopefully it wasn't wasted.

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11 minutes ago, Anubis said:

Either that is what he is doing, or I just fed a troll an entire meal on a silver platter. It's a good thing I was feeling generous today, otherwise, I would feel terrible about throwing all of that food for thought under the bridge. Hopefully it wasn't wasted.

I always hope for trolling, actually. If so, he probably entertained himself at least. If not, my faith in humanity went down a little.

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Just now, LOLC2k said:

 

I always hope for trolling, actually. If so, he probably entertained himself at least. If not, my faith in humanity went down a little.

Well, I guess for me, my faith in humanity was already quite low to begin with. It's when people like us step in to let creeps know that we don't like what they're doing, that it goes up.

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1 hour ago, Anubis said:

Okay, let's see if I've got this straight. The person you were discussing this with was a former student and you used an example of a current student requesting advice about bed wetting, to get a conversation started with the former student, who is now a friend of yours, correct? If that is the case, then why not say that in your first post? If you would have said that from the beginning, your OP would have seemed less creepy, however...

 

What i read to clarify what everyone is thinking, (also holy shit it took forever to understand wtf he is talking about but this is what i got)  was he was talking to a former student who is grown up and gotten their own life about an similar issue involving wetting with an old friend and he said that she was a friend who used to be a student at the University but isnt and is also a former university student and mentioned that after his student graduates, he keeps an open bias that they will continue to be friends and offer them advice and help if ever needed. 

Here is the creepy part, in the first post @WetG/F you said in the end “even if your uni friend is imaginary” .... so you made up a friend you had at uni with a fake bedwetting problem to get your former student who came to talk to you about her own personal wetting problems, THAT is what is creepy, making up a fake story of a fake girl to get your former student to spill a big secret of herself. That is not only creepy but really horrible

 

17 hours ago, WetG/F said:

She WAS,  my student some years ago, she is more like an old friend now....and how did I deceive??  I do have a friend at Uni who did confide in me....

.So I must repeat...my student...WAS a student years ago...IS a woman who is much older than many of you.   I suspect  the fact that I do have a friend at Uni who was also a student a couple of years ago and still confides in me, is anathema to people who find it hard even to make friends......I often part with my students on the basis that we have a continuing friendship and that I will also give them help free of charge 

 

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