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Here's the deal- My girlfriend is going to a conference this week and leaving me all alone.  Now, I know for many of you that having a week to yourself would be an awesome break, but I get quite anxious and lonely when she isn't around.  This will be the longest we have been apart since we started dating years ago, and the greatest distance.  As a result, I will be looking to fill my time this week so that I don't grow too lonely.

I figured this would be a good opportunity to address any questions that anyone might have about HD Wetting, HD Diapers, or anything related.  I often get questions messaged and e-mailed to me, but seldom have time to write a detailed response.  So, I figured this week would be a good time to get to any questions anyone might have.  Feel free to ask anything, I will do my best to fully and truthfully answer any questions that come up.

 

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This question is quite personal. So please only answer if/as far as you are comfortable with it.

If I understand what you share here, wetting is a personal kink for you. And you work with quite attractive women who perform exactly that  for a job. A job requires a professional relationship though. How do you deal with this? Is this a field of tension for you?

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5 minutes ago, ronmeyer said:

This question is quite personal. So please only answer if/as far as you are comfortable with it.

If I understand what you share here, wetting is a personal kink for you. And you work with quite attractive women who perform exactly that  for a job. A job requires a professional relationship though. How do you deal with this? Is this a field of tension for you?

Not OP but I can answer this.

Basically, it's no different than an ordinary person filming and producing ordinary porn. The fetish itself doesn't mean anything. Sure, you're filming people boning, you'll probably be attracted to it, but you also know that this is your job, you're a professional, and the actors are real people deserving of respect.

TL;DR it might turn ya on but it's not that hard to be an adult about it.

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14 hours ago, pissypants2005 said:

How many models have “tried out” and gotten too pee shy to do the deed?

And.... what’s the video that you’re most proud of? How about one each from the hdwetting and hddiapers catalog. Thanks!

@pissypants2005

For the first part of your question, about pee shyness, I'm not sure we have ever had a situation where a model was simply unable to ever pee.  We have had situations where a model has had extreme difficulty being able to let go and allow themselves to pee in their pants, though they do get there eventually.  Some of our most successful wetters, who are able to reliably pee on cue, started out having difficulty doing it during their first shoot.  Both Sammy and Sosha are examples of this- For their first shoots they both had difficulty allowing themselves to let go in their jeans, even though they were both desperate.  However, they soon got to the point where they were comfortable doing it, and it was no longer an issue.

Other models were never able to get over that pee shyness, which made shooting with them difficult, no matter how excellent they may have been otherwise.  Julie is a great example of this- She was a wonderful model to work with, extremely professional, and a great performer.  Unfortunately, when it came to wetting herself, she just always had a lot of difficulty doing it, no matter how desperate she was.  When we encounter these kind if situations we simply set up the shot, everyone clears the area, and we leave the camera rolling, giving the model however much time they need to pee.  However, if they can't improve, we have no choice but to stop shooting with them.  We have to produce a certain number of scenes to continue to be financially viable, and if we can't get to that number of scenes repeatedly because a model is too pee shy, we have no choice but to stop shooting with them.  This is why so many models on HD Wetting have only ever appeared in a handful of scenes, while other models have worked with us for years.

As far as the second part of your question goes, as far as what videos I am most proud of, that is tough.  There are several videos I am really proud of for a variety of reasons, so choosing just one from each site is difficult.

For recent HD Wetting videos, I think there is "She Can't Hang Up" which just really came out well.  All the elements I try to get right in a video are there- From the desperation, the acting, the lighting, the audio, the overall production quality, the humor, and of course having a good soaking.

Then there is also "FrankenSammy," which isn't really that great from a fetish point of view, but it was from the very early days of HD Wetting where we were just trying to figure out what worked and what didn't.  Everything about that video was absurd, and the way we approached it was just so over the top.  It probably cost more than any other single video and made hardly any money, so it was a complete financial failure, but the ambition behind it gives it a special place in my heart.

And while we are speaking of financial failures that I am proud of, there would have to be the attempt at HD Wetting Live.  The idea was to do a television style live broadcast every month, where members could join in and chat.  To do this we had multiple cameras, custom graphics, pre-produced segments, lighting, full production crew- Everything that would go into a live TV show.  The entire thing was a giant financial failure, and almost ruined HD Wetting.  I'm still not sure I have fully recovered financially from it.  Yet, the very fact that we were able to pull off multiple, live, six  hour, high definition streams with this level of production is something that I feel proud of.

Finally, I really like this video.  I'm not sure why it stands out so much for me.  It is just a really a simple, intimate video- Alone in the forest with Sosha, talking directly to the camera.  There is no fake scenario, it is just an honest, authentic, for fun wetting.

When it comes to HD Diapers, I really like this video.  Again, it is one where all the elements just really came together well, and I love seeing their acting in it.  In reality Sosha is so sweet, kind, and gentle, so seeing her act as this this commanding dominatrix is just completely outside of her personality, but she did such a good job with the roll.

Another diaper video I really like is "Leaking in Leggings."  Shooting with Nikko is always a lot of fun, and when you combine that with cute Goodnites, leaking, and getting to see how much she peed in the diaper... That really creates a nice video, IMO.

 

1 hour ago, ronmeyer said:

This question is quite personal. So please only answer if/as far as you are comfortable with it.

If I understand what you share here, wetting is a personal kink for you. And you work with quite attractive women who perform exactly that  for a job. A job requires a professional relationship though. How do you deal with this? Is this a field of tension for you?

 

1 hour ago, Bulge_Lover said:

Not OP but I can answer this.

Basically, it's no different than an ordinary person filming and producing ordinary porn. The fetish itself doesn't mean anything. Sure, you're filming people boning, you'll probably be attracted to it, but you also know that this is your job, you're a professional, and the actors are real people deserving of respect.

TL;DR it might turn ya on but it's not that hard to be an adult about it.

@ronmeyerWhat @Bulge_Lover said is essentially correct, only I would modify it to say it is like working with attractive people at almost any other job.  All the scenes for the shoots are planned, we have a shot list, the wardrobe is all planned out, there is audio and lighting consideration, all the scenes are blocked out with the talent, and then we go down the shot list and get everything done.  It actually isn't very sexy, but it is efficient.  The models are professional performers and they are my coworkers.  I think of them as I would think of my colleagues at any other job.

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8 hours ago, TVGuy said:

 

Then there is also "FrankenSammy," which isn't really that great from a fetish point of view, but it was from the very early days of HD Wetting where we were just trying to figure out what worked and what didn't.  Everything about that video was absurd, and the way we approached it was just so over the top.  It probably cost more than any other single video and made hardly any money, so it was a complete financial failure, but the ambition behind it gives it a special place in my heart.

 

 

I mean, if it's any consolation TVGuy the FrankenSammy video trailer was what got me interested in your site and is still one of my personal favorites even if its a bit cheesy.

 

As for a question, since you also share this kink I'm curious do you watch any other sites videos online? I know it might be competition but are you a particular fan of a specific wetting website other than your own? Or better yet are you able to watch any of your own videos and still enjoy it in that sense? Having some experience in the filming world I am completely unable to watch films I am in without losing all immersion due to being there and thinking of production so I'm curious if the same applies.

I suppose that's two questions isn't it...

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On 6/17/2018 at 6:04 PM, mr.bursting.XD said:

If you had to pick a video that embodies HD wetting's production process as a whole, which one would it be?

It would be hard to pick a single scene, as each shoot produces a couple dozen difference scenes. The production process would best be represented by the contents of an entire shoot, not just a single scene.  However, I think this video would probably best encompass the process.  It is a behind the scenes montage from a single shoot.

On 6/17/2018 at 10:53 PM, kyrieelleison14 said:

As for a question, since you also share this kink I'm curious do you watch any other sites videos online? I know it might be competition but are you a particular fan of a specific wetting website other than your own? Or better yet are you able to watch any of your own videos and still enjoy it in that sense? Having some experience in the filming world I am completely unable to watch films I am in without losing all immersion due to being there and thinking of production so I'm curious if the same applies.

I suppose that's two questions isn't it...

So, I do check out the competition from time to time, but I don't really get any kind of sexual gratification out of their videos.  It is more research to see how my content stacks up.

Otherwise you are absolutely right, when I watch these videos, either the ones I make or the ones produced by someone else I can't stop thinking about how it was made, how it could have been done better, what lessons I can learn from it, the lighting, the audio, the editing.  I am unable to get immersed in the fantasy.  However, I am lucky enough to have a girlfriend who shares my kinks, so even if I could become immersed in the fantasy, I think I would still prefer my girlfriend in real life to watching videos.

On 6/18/2018 at 2:41 PM, David_E said:

TVGuy,

My question is whether working with young women wetting themselves on a regular basis (Yum!) intensifies your own fetish, or diminishes it because of familiarity.

Also, if people ask you about your line of work, do you explain properly - maybe give them a link to your website?

 

David

As for your first question, if it diminishes or intensifies my fetish, I'm not sure it does either.  Making the videos is something I do professionally, it isn't a recreational activity for me.  It would be like asking a gynecologist if their job intensifies or diminishes their enjoyment of sex.  For me, sexuality is something that is very intimate.  If I am enjoying a sexual activity with my girlfriend, regardless if it is fetish related or not, it is something I enjoy in the context of our intimacy.  Producing the videos is not intimate, at least not in the same way.  It is a professional group effort to bring a fantasy to life in moving pictures, it is not an intimate activity.

As for your second question, if I tell them about my adult work, that really depends on who I am talking to.  Most of my close friends know, but there are circumstances where it would not be appropriate to discuss it.  However, I don't just make adult videos.  I also do mainstream production.  So, depending on who I am talking to I may, or may not, leave out the adult side of my business.

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15 hours ago, hoimi said:

Do you rent a house or hotel room to film in? Do you have to explain what you are filming before your get the location?

Is there a blooper roll?

We don't film in hotel rooms, though we have staged locations to look like a hotel room before.  We have filmed at a variety of locations including houses and professional sex dungeons.  There is no single typical way that I usually find locations- In the past locations have been offered up by members of the sites, found through posts on Craigslist or Fetlife, or one of the models as put me in touch with someone who has a location. 

I always make sure the property owner knows what we are doing.  The last thing I would want is a situation where we were trying to shoot at a location and have the owner discover what we were doing and call the cops.  Usually I explain that we want a location for shooting legal adult videos, that we are a professional production company, and provide proof of liability insurance.

In regards to having a blooper reel, unfortunately the answer is no- I do not have any kind of master collection of bloopers assembled somewhere.  Typically, if there is some kind of outtake that is entertaining in any way, I will tack it on to the end of the scene.  So, after a member watches a scene, they will then see any outtakes that appear in the scene.  However, this happens rarely.  The vast majority of our scenes aren't scripted- They are planned, but the models improvise the actual action and dialog, even though they have loose instructions for the scene.  Usually I just let the scene play out, so what you see is what you get.  Only in the rare case where things get totally off track do we cut and back up.

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On 6/21/2018 at 11:27 AM, mavfan said:

?Do you take on apprenticeships?

Nope.  Tried something like this in the past, but it didn't work out.  Having people at the shoot who want to be there to see a girl pee in her pants introduces an unprofessional and disruptive element, no matter how well behaved  they might be.  We are in the business of bringing fantasies to life on video, but it is an effort that we take on professionally.  It would be like bringing on an employee who has a underwear fetish to a lingerie store. 

Having an inexperienced crew member also doesn't work.  I need to rely on my production crew and trust them to do their jobs to keep the shoots moving and get all the scenes shot.  Having to hold someone's hand or look over the shoulder of someone who is just learning would make the shoot much slower and more expensive.

On 6/21/2018 at 10:17 PM, GoldenG8 said:

Which models have this fetish in real life? Have any of them come to like it because of their work on your productions?

I do not ask the models about their real life fetishes, as that would be extremely unprofessional.  If you own a company, and ask your employees about their personal sex lives, that would be extremely inappropriate.  Just because we are producing adult entertainment doesn't mean I can ask such things of those under my employ.

Now, with that said, models do sometimes volunteer information conversationally.  Roxanne, Alice, and Ginger all expressed some personal interest in wetting that lead them to apply to be an HD Wetting model.  Nikko has stated that wearing and wetting diapers has become like a drug for her, and she needs to cut herself off from doing it all the time.  Sammy has stated she has had romantic partners in the past with a pee fetish, and it has been something that has been part of her life, though I don't recall her ever mentioning her personal feelings about it.

I have also attempted shoots with other models in the past who said they wanted to work for HD Wetting because they enjoyed various forms of pee play.  However, they had no modeling or performing experience, and were not able to play out a scene with the cameras, lights, and microphones.  They found there was a tremendous difference between privately enjoying their kink and being in a professional production.  I hire models based on their ability to do a good job on camera and meet the demands of the shoot, not because of their personal kinks.

As far as the second part of your question, have any of the models grown into the fetish because of their work for HD Wetting?  The answer is still that I don't know.  Many of the models have expressed that they enjoy working for us, and that our shoots are the most fun of all the shoots they get to do, but that might not be because they have grown to enjoy it sexually.

On 6/22/2018 at 6:17 PM, catiekanouse said:

How would one go about getting a “tryout” would you be interested in a transgender model? 

 

First  step in modeling for us would be to read the modeling info on our business website and then submit the online new model application- https://fuzzysquirrelproductions.com/models/

If you seem like a good fit, we would schedule a quick face-to-face meeting and camera test to get to know you and make sure that things seem like they will work out.  As far as being a transgender model goes- The answer is possibly.  As I have stated previously, we are in the business of bringing a fantasy to life on video.  But that is a constructed fantasy of attractive women wetting their pants.  If a model is able to help us achieve that fantasy, I do not care what their birth gender was, I only care about how they present on camera.

On 6/23/2018 at 4:39 AM, Aaron said:

Wetting can go very well with other fetishes, e.g. bondage, spanking etc. 

What other fetishes have you incorporated, and which ones would you like to involve?  

 

We have definitely done bondage and spanking in our scenes before, as well as some faux voyeurism.  I think there also aspects of some of our scenes that would appeal to those who have panty, jeans, cheerleader, nurse, and medical fetishes.

I would like to continue to do more of these scenes, and perhaps do some more playful scenes that incorporate things like magic and hypnosis.

On 6/24/2018 at 8:06 AM, dcw said:

Any chance you might ever try incorporating related fetishes? For instance farting, messing, etc...

Well, I'm not sure what all you would consider a related fetish.  I don't plan on drastically changing the kind of content that is on HD Wetting or HD Diapers right now, as I feel like we have carved out a market for female wetting and diaper wearing and changing that, now, wouldn't appeal to our paying customer base.  However, launching a new site is always a possibility.

However, I can tell you that we likely will not be doing any messing content.  The courts here have ruled other adult content featuring poop play is obscene and not constitutionally protect speech.  As such, producing such content would carry a risk of possibly facing criminal obscenity charges, though it has been a long time since such charges were brought against anyone for that kind of content. 

There is also the issue of payment processing- Because of the obscenity risk, most payment processors will not knowingly process transactions for sites dealing with messing content.  Many of the producers who operate these sites try to fly under the radar of their payment processors, or have to severely limit the kinds of payments they can accept.  I prefer to do everything in a way that is fully compliant with all the terms, rules, and regulations.  This is the same reason I don't have a Paypal payment option.

While farting content is a stronger possibility, I don't have any plans right now to pursue it.  There is already a lot of farting content out there, and I'm not sure what new I could offer the market.  When I started HD Wetting and HD Diapers I felt that the current offerings were somehow deficient, that there was a gap I could fill in the marketplace.  I don't see such a gap in the farting content that is available.

On 6/26/2018 at 6:30 PM, S19YellowPengu said:

How do you make sure that your actors are sufficiently "filled up" before a shoot?

 

Also, have you ever had to wait on set for a while for an actor's bladder to fill?

When doing a shoot the models are encouraged to arrive needing to pee already.  After that, we have worked out a good system to keep their bladders full- Two bottles of water followed by a Snapple seems to be the perfect mix of hydration and diuretic to keep them frequently having to pee all day long as long as they are almost constantly drinking.  Then, every time they pee, they don't fully empty their bladders, saving some for the next scene.  This helps them to be able to keep going.

As far as your second question, yes, we absolutely have had to wait for a model's bladder to fill.  This frequently happens with a models first shoot, and is something we expect.  Sometimes we have models that we just are unable to work with because they are unable to pee as frequently as we need them to for the shoots to be financially viable.

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2 hours ago, TVGuy said:

When doing a shoot the models are encouraged to arrive needing to pee already.  After that, we have worked out a good system to keep their bladders full- Two bottles of water followed by a Snapple seems to be the perfect mix of hydration and diuretic to keep them frequently having to pee all day long as long as they are almost constantly drinking.  Then, every time they pee, they don't fully empty their bladders, saving some for the next scene.  This helps them to be able to keep going.

As far as your second question, yes, we absolutely have had to wait for a model's bladder to fill.  This frequently happens with a models first shoot, and is something we expect.  Sometimes we have models that we just are unable to work with because they are unable to pee as frequently as we need them to for the shoots to be financially viable.

Thank you for your reply. I have more questions, if you don't mind.

 

Are the actors you use solely on HD Wetting/Diapers or do they do shoots with other producers as well (including non-omo related content)?

 

How many people, on average, are needed for each shoot?

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1 hour ago, S19YellowPengu said:

Thank you for your reply. I have more questions, if you don't mind.

 

Are the actors you use solely on HD Wetting/Diapers or do they do shoots with other producers as well (including non-omo related content)?

 

How many people, on average, are needed for each shoot?

Are the actors you use solely on HD Wetting/Diapers or do they do shoots with other producers as well (including non-omo related content)?

Many of our most successful models are professionals and also work with other producers making other kinds of content. Both Alisha and Sosha make a full time living as adult performers, as did Sammy and Haydee in the past.  Other models have supplemented their income with adult modeling.  Very few models we have ever worked with only ever worked for HD Wetting/HD Diapers.

If you are interested in their other work, both Alisha and Sosha are on Twitter-

https://twitter.com/AlishaxAdams

https://twitter.com/SoshaBelleXXX

 

How many people, on average, are needed for each shoot?

For a typical two model, on location shoot with indoor scenes we will have five to six people there total.  This includes the two models, a production assistant, a sound person, and myself running camera and directing.  Sometimes we will add a dedicated camera operator so I can just focus on the directing aspects.

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2 minutes ago, Drakon said:

I have a question as well. How long does it take to edit scenes and fully assemble the video? Also, are there circumstances where you do retakes for any errors, and if so how might it affect the work day?

How long does it take to edit scenes and fully assemble the video?

This really depends on the scene, but the average edit time for a video is probably around 30 minutes to an hour.  Sometimes it can be a bit more if the video is more complicated with its staging, or a lot less if it is just a one continuous shot scene with no edits.  Doing a full site update, from video editing, to publishing it on the site, to announcing it on Twitter/Tumbler usually takes 4 - 6 hours.

 

Also, are there circumstances where you do retakes for any errors, and if so how might it affect the work day?

I really like for our content to feel authentic.  This means I don't usually edit errors out, but I let the scene play out, mistakes and all, and that is what ends up getting published.  Only if the video ends up totally off track and isn't going anywhere do we stop, briefly talk about what went wrong, and reset.  I try to build time into the shoot to allow for this.  Only in the event of a catastrophic error, like something didn't record or the sound wasn't there, will we re-shoot an entire scene. 

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13 hours ago, fury85 said:

What ever happened to Micky and Sammy? I remember something about Micky wanting to start a family, but they really seemed to be the life blood of the site in the beginning. 

Was it just time for them to move on or was there more than that?

 

Neither Mikki or Sammy really told me for sure why they stopped doing the videos and never came back.  I know when we started working with Mikki she really wasn't looking at a adult modeling as a career.  However, she did go on to do work for some other producers.  I also know she was planning on leaving the adult industry to start a family, so I imagine that is what happened.

As far as Sammy goes, she told me she was going to need to take an extended break as she was going to have to spend some time in another part of the country dealing with a family issue.  She never told me what that issue was, and I told her she was welcome to contact me if she wanted to start doing the videos again, but that was the last I heard from her.  I can imagine that once you move across the country and settle down somewhat, even if you intend it to only be temporary, it can be hard to move back.

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