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It's only about as safe as most websites that you go to, with the intention of meeting people, whether it's a dating site or social networking. The best thing is to know how to protect yourself from creeps and people looking to steal personal information from you.

From personal experience, I met my last GF on Fetlife and likely would not have without it. It can be very useful, but finding people who live nearby that share your kinks can be very difficult if you don't live near a major city. I was lucky enough to have met someone who lived close enough that the drive only took about 20 minutes. Others aren't so lucky. All I can suggest is give it a try, put your safety first, and see what happens.

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4 hours ago, Bluesman59 said:

I’ve heard a lot of y’all talk about Fetlife and how it’s good for meeting people.  Is it something that’s safe to use?  

If you mean to use as a website for online communication then I believe it's pretty safe if you don't share too much of personal information and don't give away personal contacts like phone number.

If you're asking about meeting someone from there in person then it's no more or less safe than meeting people from any other public web resource. There're some nice and genuine people but there're also some creepy and dangerous people. If you're going to meet anyone in person from there use caution and common sense, don't assume this person is ok to meet just because they have account of Fetlife. My experience of meeting local people at public events from there so far was neutral to good but I've heard real stories from Fetlife members about real life stalking, endless mindf*cks and creeping they've experienced from some people on Fetlife.

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