amandarenea 11 Posted May 6, 2018 Popular Post Share Posted May 6, 2018 Now, I want to regale this by saying I am posting this to shed light on how dangerous and emotionally damaging this can be to do to someone. This was about a year ago before I had realized I had a fetish, but nonetheless, even if I did realize I had the fetish at the time, this was still against my will and I still think about it frequently how emotionally hurtful it was and still has an impact on me today. My boyfriend and I had been together for just over two years when we decided to go on a 6 hour road trip to the next state over for a little vacation. I was greatly excited to be able to enjoy the beach and sit back and relax on the long drive considering my boyfriend insisted on driving the whole way - it was his car. We filled up the gas tank and were on our way. The beginning of the drive went well, until about two and a half hours in. I began to feel the need to pee. I looked over at my boyfriend and mentioned “Hey, I kinda need to pee, can we stop soon?” I was kind of taken aback by his response “Can you hold it? I really want to make good time and it’ll take too much time getting off the freeway” At this point, it wasn’t an emergency and I figured I could hold it a bit longer so I agreed. But as we continued to drive, the need began to get worse, and worse, and had reached the point that if I were driving myself, I surely would’ve gotten off the freeway and actively gone out of my way to look for a bathroom I could use. This time I said, “I really have to go now, can we stop?” again, I was met with another excuse, “Yeah, after we get out of this traffic” I waited through the traffic, and once we were out of it, as we passed exits and gas stations off the freeway, I became concerned. Now, I was a very shy girl, especially about mentioning that I needed to use the bathroom, especially in front of my boyfriend, I hated asking to stop, for fear of inconveniencing anyone, so I just sat there, but I could feel myself reaching a critical point; we were nearing hour three and a half. Finally, by hour four, it was an emergency. “Okay I really need a stop now” ”I’m not stopping now, we’re almost there” My heart dropped at his words. I had never had someone outright refuse to stop for me. Friend and family would always go out of there way if I asked for a stop, so why was he acting like this? I expressed my concerns to him, but all were shot down because it was apparent that we were absolutely not stopping. Now, I’ll spare you all the details of my actual wetting because that is not what this post is about. In the end, I did wet myself in a way that absolutely horrified me and I would never wish on someone else. Yes we did end up breaking up shortly after this. The moral of of this is that even though someone may have a fetus, please do not do this to someone. I still suffer anxiety if I am not near a readily available bathroom, or if I’m in the car with someone and have to go. wettingman, Name Display, TheGreatNobody and 7 others 10 Quote Link to comment
KozmoFox 5,644 Posted May 6, 2018 👮 Moderator Share Posted May 6, 2018 3 hours ago, amandarenea said: even though someone may have a fetus I'm going to assume you meant fetish, but I'll admit the typo gave me a chuckle. Either way I'm sorry that happened to you. It sounds awful and I wouldn't wish it on anybody. I want you to know that omorashi.org is a safe place for you to talk about this and I hope you can come to get past this trauma ^_^ scinosensation, kochel428 and TheGreatNobody 3 Quote Link to comment
scinosensation 543 Posted May 6, 2018 Share Posted May 6, 2018 @amandarenea I have been on both sides of similar situations. After I had caused a girlfriend I dearly loved to wet herself I saw the trauma it caused her. Fortunately she did not suffer the kind of anxiety it caused you, I recognized that I had done a very bad thing and never did it again. Then again I've had several girlfriends and one wife who forced me to wet myself. Since I knew I had the fetish only the first time was traumatic (result/cause of an acute paralytic anxiety attack. As Ms. @KozmoFox said, here is a safe place for you. I offer whatever comfort and support I can give. Quote Link to comment
Ondinist 144 Posted May 6, 2018 Share Posted May 6, 2018 What your boyfriend did to you is never, ever, acceptable. We all have an absolute right to decide for ourselves what happens to our bodies and to use force or cooercion on another human being to satisfy our own interests is just despicable. On behalf of us all, please accept our apologies. Quote Link to comment
LittlePunkGirl 109 Posted May 6, 2018 Share Posted May 6, 2018 I'm sorry you had to deal with that. Guy was a complete douche. Quote Link to comment
amandarenea 11 Posted May 6, 2018 Author Share Posted May 6, 2018 5 hours ago, KozmoFox said: I'm going to assume you meant fetish, but I'll admit the typo gave me a chuckle. Either way I'm sorry that happened to you. It sounds awful and I wouldn't wish it on anybody. I want you to know that omorashi.org is a safe place for you to talk about this and I hope you can come to get past this trauma ^_^ HAHA yes I meant fetish whoops! Quote Link to comment
gladiatrix 1,109 Posted May 7, 2018 🌟 OmoOrg VIP Share Posted May 7, 2018 I was going to yell "DUMP HIM" as soon as I saw the topic until I read the last line!!! Fetish or not, that's sexual abuse and it's not in any way okay, and I'm really glad you're out of that relationship. I've been through the same thing and I hope you'll find this website to be a safe place <3 KozmoFox 1 Quote Link to comment
GreenChile 828 Posted May 7, 2018 Share Posted May 7, 2018 That's not cool at all, no matter if you had a fetish or not, he shouldn't have done that to you at all without your consent to play along and I'm sorry you went through that... Quote Link to comment
The Dark Wolf 1,746 Posted May 8, 2018 ✨ Legendary Member Share Posted May 8, 2018 Agreed, no one should ever be forced to wet themselves, no matter what some people think. I know I've depicted it in my stories but in real life it's a terrible thing. I'm sorry you had to go through that and I hope you feel better someday. Quote Link to comment
omolpp 21 Posted May 9, 2018 Share Posted May 9, 2018 That guy is an absolute jerk. As much as id like to see a women wet herself in real life I would never force it to happen. Doing that for my own sexual gratification in my opinion would the same as rape. RoTracksuitWet and Anubis 2 Quote Link to comment
hfgghfh 43 Posted May 9, 2018 Share Posted May 9, 2018 On 6 May 2018 at 11:27 PM, amandarenea said: I still suffer anxiety if I am not near a readily available bathroom, or if I’m in the car with someone and have to go. Quote Link to comment
sliplover 124 Posted May 9, 2018 Share Posted May 9, 2018 His behavior was 100% uncalled for an inexcusable. "Too much time to get off and back on the freeway" What. An. Asshole. And what utter bullshit! Not to worry, he's got his coming. People like this tend to not be well-liked if they continue to behave like this. Quote Link to comment
Tree Trimmer 75 Posted May 9, 2018 Share Posted May 9, 2018 That guy is a jerk for treating you like that when he could have turned it into an intimate time for you both instead of causing you all this suffering!! Quote Link to comment
wetpant00 30 Posted May 13, 2018 Share Posted May 13, 2018 This guys is an absolute asshole. This should not happen to anyone, ever. I am sorry for what happened to you, @amandarenea Quote Link to comment
wetisthebest 111 Posted May 15, 2018 Share Posted May 15, 2018 I'm so sorry this happened to you. Did he even apologize? That must have been terrible. Quote Link to comment
amandarenea 11 Posted May 15, 2018 Author Share Posted May 15, 2018 1 hour ago, wetisthebest said: I'm so sorry this happened to you. Did he even apologize? That must have been terrible. he did apologize, yes. it didn’t make the situation any better, but i think the apology helped at least a little! Quote Link to comment
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