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We've been together for a year and a half and I still haven't seen him almost-wetting-himself desperate. There's been a few times (honestly less than 10 times the entire time we've been dating) where he emphasized that he REALLY needed to pee. Even though that's not that exciting, I get really turned on on the rare occasion that he says it. I love listening to him pee because it's always really loud and long, it seems like he only uses the bathroom when his bladder is full because he's always peeing for around 30 seconds. It's funny because even if I have to go a lot, I'm so shy about people hearing me pee that I try to aim it against the bowl so it's not too loud. When he pees, you can hear it anywhere else in the house. I love when it's especially long and I think about how much he must have needed it.

Another thing I've done a few times is when he says he has to go, I'll jokingly say something like "you're not allowed." or "you're going to leave me all alone?" and he almost always answers something along the lines of "if I stay, I'll have to pee on *the couch or wherever we are*". Silly, but it kind of gets me going to think he couldn't wait. One time recently I was showing him something online and we had been drinking a lot of booze. He stopped me in the middle of what I was showing him to go to the bathroom and I'm like "Wait it's almost over!" And he's like "I'll be right back!" He peed for SO. LONG. Like over a minute and the whole time it was really loud and I love thinking about how he was probably struggling to hold on at that point. Also recently when we were on the phone he mentioned using this public bathroom in a nearby city that's notorious for being disgusting and filled with homeless people. I was making fun of him for using it and he said he really had to pee and it was an emergency situation. I've been fantasizing about it ever since, imagining him frantically searching for anywhere to pee and not caring if it's the most disgusting bathroom imaginable.

I'd love to see him pee. I have dreams where he sends me videos of himself peeing lol. I also have this specific fantasy of us on a road trip and he's about to piss himself and there's nowhere to pull over and he's driving and I have to undo his pants and aim his dick in a bottle and he fills it up so fast we have to find another bottle to contain all his pee. Sadly we went on a road trip recently and he wasn't desperate once.

So that's my very non exciting 'desperation' 'sightings'. Has anyone else got better stories about their boyfriend having to go? Or equally as frustrated as me? lol

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If he habitually seems to wait until his bladder is quite full, I can think of just two reasons.  Either he doesn't notice until it's full, or he likes the sensations from a full bladder.  I know someone with ADD who often doesn't notice, and a lot of us here like the sensations!  If he enjoys the feeling, he's halfway to fulfilling your fantasy.

You could initiate a discussion right after he has taken a long pee by saying something like, "It sure feels good to pee when you really have to go."  

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I definitely understand your situation - I've been with my girlfriend for a long time, and still haven't told her that I'm into this kind of stuff. Mostly because I'm scared of how she'd react. Earlier in our relationship, I would interpret a lot of things in favour of her being into pee as well, but recently I don't think that's the case (for example, we watched the newest season of South Park, and there's a scene where one of the characters needs to make up an excuse for not wanting his wife to go through his browser history, so he claimed to be into 'weird porn'. When asked to specify, he said 'piss porn', and it evolves to the point where they try out watersports, despite neither of them really being into it. The GF was making comments about how 'he could've made up a less disgusting/weird reason', and stuff, which honestly made me feel kinda horrible about myself... but not having told her, she obviously doesn't know). I suppose for me, not telling her has become sort of a habit. Apart from my pee fetish, we are both (as far as I know) fairly vanilla when it comes to sex and sexual interests. I care about her enough to not want to risk our relationship for the sake of a fetish! She does, however, often mention needing to pee really badly, or comes home from lectures or band practice super desperate, etc, which is a huge turn-on for me. Quite frustrating to deal with indeed!

 

Sorry if that was ramble-y or off-topic - I guess I just needed to get it off my chest... 

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Maybe you could wait until he says he's going to the toilet (or possibly after he's come back from peeing for so long), and after you've ribbed him about staying put like you normally do, just say something like "I'm not sure why, but it kind of turns me on a bit when you really need to go... are you sure you don't want to stay just a little bit longer?". If he asks why it turns you on, be as honest as possible without necessarily going into the details of your Omo fetish - probably worth thinking about it in advance and deciding what wouldn't sound too strange from a vanilla perspective, start with that and work up to more over time and/or depending on his response. 

If he agrees to hold on for you you should definitely show him how good it makes you feel, act all lovey-dovey, handsy or however you like to express your relationship, and if you're willing start kissing him [and however far you're happy to take it!]. The idea behind all of that being to act as sort of positive reinforcement so that when he holds for you, he knows it makes you hot and he gets a "reward", and he will hopefully come to associate holding with pleasure.

If you're casual enough about how you initially approach it you should be able to introduce the idea of your fetish without committing so far that you can't back out if he has a bad reaction - like you're saying "I think I like you being desperate - how do you feel about that" rather than straight out telling him "I love Omo". If he's open to the idea you can try leading him towards other aspects of the fetish... (but find a good time to confess in full to your Omo fetish once you're sure he won't hate you for it!)

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Part of the reason I don't want to tell him is that I love authentic desperation and if he were to hold on purpose for me it wouldn't excite me that much. I know, kinda unusual, but if I know that someone is getting pleasure from holding or doing it intentionally, it doesn't have the same effect on me because I like thinking about the change from pain/uncomfortableness to relief and pleasure and the way that a non-omo person would experience it. So I just have to wait for the day that he actually gets desperate around me! The thing is though, I just really want to see him pee but I don't know how to do that without him being suspicious. I'd love to hold his penis while he pees, but I'm not sure how to go about asking without making him wonder why I want to.

7 hours ago, Fred46888 said:

If he habitually seems to wait until his bladder is quite full, I can think of just two reasons.  Either he doesn't notice until it's full, or he likes the sensations from a full bladder.  I know someone with ADD who often doesn't notice, and a lot of us here like the sensations!  If he enjoys the feeling, he's halfway to fulfilling your fantasy.

You could initiate a discussion right after he has taken a long pee by saying something like, "It sure feels good to pee when you really have to go."  

This is an interesting observation. The other possibility I guess is that he has a huge bladder lol. I don't know for sure that he's waiting to go, it just seems like it because his pees always sound HUGE. And I have thought of commenting on it before, but I fear it could make him self conscious about how loud he is and he would stop doing it by aiming differently, and I would be very very sad lol.

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Hearing a long, loud pee turns me on, too.  Another way of casually mentioning the subject would be for you to say something like, "I really needed that" after returning from the bathroom.  Actual omo fans are a very small minority, so chances are your bf isn't one of them, but as you get to know each other better, he may be willing to indulge you a little.  

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3 hours ago, minniemousepee said:

The thing is though, I just really want to see him pee but I don't know how to do that without him being suspicious. I'd love to hold his penis while he pees, but I'm not sure how to go about asking without making him wonder why I want to.

If the desperation's gotta be real there's nothing to be done but wait and hope, but with this part, I think that if the relationship's solid, you can go ahead and ask because even if he did find it strange or gross, it's not like he'll hate you.

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I suggest that you wait till he goes to sleep and then when he is asleep quietly and carefully tie him down, and then once he is awake(whether at night right after your finished tying or in the morning) force him to drink water until he wets his pants. One hundred percent guaranteed to work just be ready to have sex to cheer him up after the deed is done.

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1 hour ago, Zenix said:

Some people are just less likely to fidget around when they have to go.

Do you two go the movies at all? Get him a soda and go see some movie with a post-credits scene.

This always works! My ex-gf was always super bursting after any movie. 

Although you have to be very careful not to drink a lot yourself, because you could end desperate first. Or you can simply go in the middle of the movie and leave him inside ^.^

That would be genuine desperation, but for peeing his own pants you definitely would have to convince him leaving the place without a toilet break. But even if he agrees and goes with you while genuinely desperate, it could be quite a challenge since he's a good holder. 

I think it's easier to be directly open with him, and maybeee he agrees to leave the theater without peeing, just for you, because you openly requested. He'd know your interests for sure, but he would probably accept and tell you how bad he needs to pee later on. 

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15 hours ago, LunasAuditor said:

Maybe you could wait until he says he's going to the toilet (or possibly after he's come back from peeing for so long), and after you've ribbed him about staying put like you normally do, just say something like "I'm not sure why, but it kind of turns me on a bit when you really need to go... are you sure you don't want to stay just a little bit longer?". If he asks why it turns you on, be as honest as possible without necessarily going into the details of your Omo fetish - probably worth thinking about it in advance and deciding what wouldn't sound too strange from a vanilla perspective, start with that and work up to more over time and/or depending on his response. 

If he agrees to hold on for you you should definitely show him how good it makes you feel, act all lovey-dovey, handsy or however you like to express your relationship, and if you're willing start kissing him [and however far you're happy to take it!]. The idea behind all of that being to act as sort of positive reinforcement so that when he holds for you, he knows it makes you hot and he gets a "reward", and he will hopefully come to associate holding with pleasure.

If you're casual enough about how you initially approach it you should be able to introduce the idea of your fetish without committing so far that you can't back out if he has a bad reaction - like you're saying "I think I like you being desperate - how do you feel about that" rather than straight out telling him "I love Omo". If he's open to the idea you can try leading him towards other aspects of the fetish... (but find a good time to confess in full to your Omo fetish once you're sure he won't hate you for it!)

Top comment, this is exactly how I got my bboyfriend into holding for/with me last summer. We were camping and it resulted in us being desperate several times together. 

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3 hours ago, Thudmaster said:

I suggest that you wait till he goes to sleep and then when he is asleep quietly and carefully tie him down, and then once he is awake(whether at night right after your finished tying or in the morning) force him to drink water until he wets his pants. One hundred percent guaranteed to work just be ready to have sex to cheer him up after the deed is done.

Adding to my point he may at first be hesitant and refuse but at that moment he isn't sure what he wants, so make sure you have some viagra on hand to make sure he gets an erection, he'll thank you afterwords.

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17 hours ago, minniemousepee said:

So I just have to wait for the day that he actually gets desperate around me! The thing is though, I just really want to see him pee but I don't know how to do that without him being suspicious. I'd love to hold his penis while he pees, but I'm not sure how to go about asking without making him wonder why I want to.

I suggest when he is going to go pee ask him if he wants help. Or, would he object if you followed him into the bathroom? Perhaps tell him you heard that you can feel the pee flowing through his penis as he urinates , and you want to see if it is true( yes you can feel it.)

 

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Maybe you can bring up the subject of "getting to know each other better", and after asking a couple of personal questions like "do you sleep in your underwear?" or "how old were you when you became interested in sex?" and volunteering your own answers, if he isn't really embarrassed by those things you could then tell him that you'd like to watch him pee.  

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On 4/26/2017 at 8:36 AM, wettingman said:

I suggest when he is going to go pee ask him if he wants help. Or, would he object if you followed him into the bathroom? Perhaps tell him you heard that you can feel the pee flowing through his penis as he urinates , and you want to see if it is true( yes you can feel it.)

 

I'd try this. Just follow him and tell him you're not going to leave. :D

 

Hell maybe follow him in and hop on the toilet first 

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  • 2 weeks later...

It finally happened! This is going to sound like nothing lol but it was perfectly satisfying for me because a) I got to see him desperate but b) it wasn't super prolonged and he didn't seem in distress, which would have made it unenjoyable for me.

We had about a 40 minute drive to see a film screening and got food beforehand. He tried looking for a bathroom where we were eating but didn't see one (it was a small cafe) so he said he'd just wait until we were in the theater. He didn't seem particularly desperate but he did say "I can probably wait until then" as if he wasn't completely sure, which had kind of caught my attention. I'm a notoriously slow eater so it took me forever to finish my food and as I got near the end he started getting obviously desperate--saying his bladder was full, he'd been holding it since we left my house, etc. I immediately got really aroused and then I noticed how much he was jiggling his legs and he had his hands between his legs near his crotch. Almost like a 'potty dance' while we were sitting down. Not actually grabbing himself but he was visibly desperate. I couldn't believe it as I've been dating him for a while and have never seen him THAT desperate. He doesn't normally mention over and over again his need to go or physically show desperation at all so it must have been really bad. I had the opportunity to make it last longer but the loving girlfriend side of me felt guilty so we quickly left after that and he got to use the bathroom. I only wish I could have seen him pee after all that.

It was only a few minutes over all, but I can tell I'll be thinking about this for a long time... ;) I doubt I'll be seeing anything like that again soon.

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On 4/25/2017 at 3:08 PM, minniemousepee said:

The thing is though, I just really want to see him pee but I don't know how to do that without him being suspicious. I'd love to hold his penis while he pees, but I'm not sure how to go about asking without making him wonder why I want to.

 

My ex held my penis while I peed one time. She used to joke about wanting a job as a men's room attendant, like the ones they have in fancy casinos. And, the joking eventually led to the ridiculous scenario of a men's room attendant holding your penis while you pee. You could maybe go that route. Find some way to bring up men's room attendants and start joking about what kind of a job that would be. Then, when he goes to the bathroom, insist that you need to be in there to offer him hand towels and whatnot. That could maybe get you through the door while he's in there peeing. Then, depending on how bold you're feeling, offer to hold it for him while he goes.

 

As a bit of advice though, in case you ever do get to hold his penis for him, aim it lower than you'd expect. Obviously, you're not going to be as experienced at aiming a penis as your boyfriend is. When my ex held mine, she had it aimed at the toilet's tank while I continued holding my pee and told her how to adjust her aim. Or, you could aim poorly on purpose so that he has to hold back the pee a little longer, and we all know how much worse it is to hold your pee when you're right at the toilet *wink*

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  • 2 weeks later...

I would be willing to bet that if you sat down with him, and sincerely told him about the things you're into, and ask him if he would be comfortable experimenting with this kink for you, he would probably do it.  I don't know how open minded other men are compared to me, but I'll try anything at least once.  I mean, something's you just don't know if you like until you have a go at it right?  

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