DiscordlyCutie 13 Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 i really wish i had someone i could talk to and would do things with me one thing i really wanna do but have never done is have some one denie me the use of a bathroom until i wet myself but i dont think thats ever gonna happen i dont know if anyone is willing to talk to me or anything but im here hoping lol sv_wallgauss 1 Quote Link to comment
Bulge_Lover 1,909 Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 If you're a woman, you'll find literally dozens of guys here who'd be perfectly willing to do whatever you'd like them to. If you're male, sad to say you're probably out of luck unless you find someone IRL who's into it. GunRunner 1 Quote Link to comment
DiscordlyCutie 13 Posted July 5, 2016 Author Share Posted July 5, 2016 (edited) well then i guess i'm in luck then :P thing is i dont know how to go about asking or finding people lol 7 minutes ago, Bulge_Lover said: If you're a woman, you'll find literally dozens of guys here who'd be perfectly willing to do whatever you'd like them to. If you're male, sad to say you're probably out of luck unless you find someone IRL who's into it. Edited July 5, 2016 by DiscordlyCutie (see edit history) Quote Link to comment
likesowet100 4 Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 Well, im sure if you look around and ask nicelly many people would love to talk and do things with ya :D Quote Link to comment
DiscordlyCutie 13 Posted July 5, 2016 Author Share Posted July 5, 2016 5 minutes ago, likesowet100 said: Well, im sure if you look around and ask nicelly many people would love to talk and do things with ya :D but im very shy and dont know where to start Quote Link to comment
Bulge_Lover 1,909 Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 Well the first step is to try to lose the shyness. There's nothing wrong with sexuality, and there's nothing wrong with having the kind of fun that you want to have. What you need to do is make a new thread, saying that you're a woman looking for someone who will help you hold to your limit. You need to be very clear what you're willing to do and what you're not willing to do. Clearly state "No pictures, no video, no camming, no voice. Text chat only. I am not interested in having a romantic relationship, I only want someone who would like to have a bit of fun, who'll be glad to talk to me to help me hold to my limit. I'd love to discuss holding and wetting stories, but nothing sexual beyond that. Please be polite and respectful. I will leave chat immediately if you try to be pushy." Although, you should be willing to provide proof that you are a woman. A picture of your hand with your username written on it, uploaded to imgur, tends to do the job unless you have complete man-hands. Totally untraceable, I know it sucks, but there's a lot of guys who pose as girls, and it's just the right thing to do to assure the person you're talking to that you're not some kind of creep. Quote Link to comment
Haburashi 53 Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 I know what you are talking about @DiscordlyCutie. I believe many users here are shy too (including me). But Bulge_Lover is right! Quote Link to comment
Bulge_Lover 1,909 Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 (edited) Another thing is that you have to be there for the guy as well. You can't just stay quiet and read what he writes, you need to participate or it's not going to be fun for him. Keep telling him how full you are, describe the sensations, be half of the conversation. I know it's difficult when you're shy, but just try to understand that the internet is another world. You don't have to be yourself here. Let it go, be excited, be involved :-D Edited July 5, 2016 by Bulge_Lover (see edit history) Haburashi 1 Quote Link to comment
LucyVersion2.0 1,218 Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 It's a lot easier to meet someone online first, if you're looking to explore any fetish. If you get to know someone online first, and you just happen to meet on a site that caters to your fetish, you've already got that in common, it's out there in the open. If you happen to meet someone in person first, be open about who you are right away, rather than talking to them, or even dating them, for months before you say anything...life is too short to waste time on boring vanilla people, believe that! I've never actively sought out a partner online; they've always found me first, so I guess I don't have a lot of advice about that. However, I do know that having a pretty thorough profile helps, I think it kind of proves that you're "real" and not a bot or sexcam girl/dude, and people who are truly interested in you will read it. I know that not everyone is as liberal with pics as I am, and I understand that. But, you should keep a nice face shot on hand to send to people when you feel comfortable enough to do so, you don't have to make it your profile pic. I guess that's all I can contribute... Rubic13, LoadedMink, gobphus and 1 other 4 Quote Link to comment
alexwbj 110 Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 3 hours ago, DiscordlyCutie said: but im very shy and dont know where to start It looks to me like you already did start :) I think Lucy just gave you some sound advice there and she knows what she's talking about so I think you can take her suggestions. You will soon find out that there are different kind of guys out here (I'm assuming you're looking for guys?). So try to figure out what you're interested in and good luck finding it. Quote Link to comment
Guest Closed_Account Posted July 5, 2016 Share Posted July 5, 2016 Well, are you into guys or girls to begin with? That changes things a bit about how to find partners. Quote Link to comment
RavenEevee 628 Posted July 6, 2016 Share Posted July 6, 2016 so, home many people asked you to hold with them or for them and then asked you to skype with them? Quote Link to comment
Lotus 35 Posted July 6, 2016 Share Posted July 6, 2016 Or you can just Early 2000's that Sh*& and just A/S/L some people and see what you wind up with. Shoot some messages to some of that characters in this chunk of responses, It cant hurt...(Unless you want it too.) Quote Link to comment
Dimethyl 0 Posted July 6, 2016 Share Posted July 6, 2016 I also searching for some one, but it is hard. I already had a gf wish was into pee play. It started as a normal relationship, but after 3 months we found out that we share a interest. Quote Link to comment
ashamedboy 8 Posted July 6, 2016 Share Posted July 6, 2016 20 hours ago, Bulge_Lover said: Well the first step is to try to lose the shyness. There's nothing wrong with sexuality, and there's nothing wrong with having the kind of fun that you want to have. What you need to do is make a new thread, saying that you're a woman looking for someone who will help you hold to your limit. You need to be very clear what you're willing to do and what you're not willing to do. Clearly state "No pictures, no video, no camming, no voice. Text chat only. I am not interested in having a romantic relationship, I only want someone who would like to have a bit of fun, who'll be glad to talk to me to help me hold to my limit. I'd love to discuss holding and wetting stories, but nothing sexual beyond that. Please be polite and respectful. I will leave chat immediately if you try to be pushy." Although, you should be willing to provide proof that you are a woman. A picture of your hand with your username written on it, uploaded to imgur, tends to do the job unless you have complete man-hands. Totally untraceable, I know it sucks, but there's a lot of guys who pose as girls, and it's just the right thing to do to assure the person you're talking to that you're not some kind of creep. What you just described there is exactly the type of thing I want. I'd be happy to talk to anyone under those conditions. If anyone is interested. Quote Link to comment
Electricrabbit 1 Posted July 11, 2016 Share Posted July 11, 2016 It is harder for guys but I'd love to try this out and meet people and discuss this with them. I am shy and sadly nine of my friends are into this type of thing. :( Quote Link to comment
LunasAuditor 163 Posted October 4, 2016 Share Posted October 4, 2016 Personally I'd love to play holding games with a girl some time - I never managed to push myself to a genuine accident despite trying so reckon I need an external impetus to prevent me quitting before getting properly desperate... Plus, regardless of my asexuality/low sex drive it'd be awesome to share the experience with a girl who'd be into it too... Ideally I'd love it to be IRL but the chances of meeting someone there seem very slim! Quote Link to comment
Alice125 108 Posted October 4, 2016 Share Posted October 4, 2016 Me too, but it's really hard to find someone genuine when I mostly find guys who just want to see a girl pee herself Quote Link to comment
LunasAuditor 163 Posted October 4, 2016 Share Posted October 4, 2016 30 minutes ago, Alice125 said: Me too, but it's really hard to find someone genuine when I mostly find guys who just want to see a girl pee herself Well I can't in all honesty say I wouldn't enjoy that - for me the wetting is more the point than the holding, that just builds the anticipation - but games should be fun for everyone involved so if she wets, so do I! (so *would* I, getting ahead of myself!)...I actually just posted a thread to see if anyone had any good "game" suggestions, but unless a miracle happens I suspect it's solo games I'll be playing for the foreseeable future! Quote Link to comment
LucyVersion2.0 1,218 Posted October 9, 2016 Share Posted October 9, 2016 On a side note: I've found over the years that true compatibility, even in this fetish world, is impossible to find. Of all the people I've done pee play with, I've only felt three were "just like me". No one else can roll with me, nor I with them, it just becomes a double-compromise, which sucks as far as I'm concerned, because both I and the other person have to do things for each other which don't particularly turn either of us on. As a woman, it's hard to find a guy who will let me take the upper hand, or a girl who will take the upper hand over me (yes, I'm a weird switch). Most men I run into want nothing to do with being controlled by a woman, and most of the women I'm attracted to claim to be straight, and want nothing to do with playing with another woman on any level. (Personally, I don't believe that anyone is completely straight or gay, everyone is to some degree bisexual.) Not being able to do the online/phone play thing also puts me at a disadvantage as far as getting any playtime goes. I just can't fake it; it's not an enjoyable experience for me. I feel like I'm taking what could be a delightful, intimate moment face to face, and turning it into a complete farce. But, online or phone play is all that a lot of people want; they don't want to take it to highest level for whatever reason (usually it's because they are either married, or completely lacking any self-confidence). To them, typing one-handed, to be kind about it, is the highest level. But, it just makes me feel like a loser, because I've experienced far greater bliss. I have succeeded in turning my cute straightedge guy on to watersports. But, it's not the same as being with someone like me, who's had a lifelong interest, and lifelong experience. I miss that, and have even considered traveling again to find it. So, I guess I'm in the "I wish" club, too. But, I'll shut up now. 13bravo and LoadedMink 2 Quote Link to comment
foxtwo 10 Posted October 9, 2016 Share Posted October 9, 2016 I'm lucky to say that I already found the woman of my dreams but the compromise is... She's not that into pee of course! It's fine. Finding someone who is 100% into the same things sounds great but seriously, how boring would it be living with your own self all the time? Variety is the spice of life. You will find lots of people here who share your interest and I wish you luck in perhaps finding that perfect someone here, but for me if a person is perfect in every other way then I won't hold their lack of taste when it comes to pee play against them Quote Link to comment
Aozorize 60 Posted October 9, 2016 Share Posted October 9, 2016 I am on the search as well, but that isn't the main reason. I am still recovering from a previous relationship and I find it's too difficult for me to overcome alone at this time. I need to find someone new to talk to. Quote Link to comment
therelolord 26 Posted October 9, 2016 Share Posted October 9, 2016 Kinda on the same boat, i would love to have someone to talk to, do some omorashi related stuff, etc. but luck wasen`t on my side so far. But i guess im "out of luck" anyway so im still waiting for a miracle . Quote Link to comment
Jeanette 168 Posted October 9, 2016 Share Posted October 9, 2016 For those who have found partners to play with, how often is omorashi the interest that brought you together in the first place, versus finding a partner some other way and then introducing them to the fetish? I would expect the latter to be much more common, unless you're someone that exclusively looks for partners already into pants wetting and pee play. Quote Link to comment
LucyVersion2.0 1,218 Posted October 10, 2016 Share Posted October 10, 2016 5 hours ago, Gregg said: For those who have found partners to play with, how often is omorashi the interest that brought you together in the first place, versus finding a partner some other way and then introducing them to the fetish? I would expect the latter to be much more common, unless you're someone that exclusively looks for partners already into pants wetting and pee play. For me, it's been the omorashi bringing us together. The one non-pee player I've been able to turn on to it always knew I was into it, though. I definitely exclusively look for people into pee play, because it's not something I can compromise on and do without, or know that they are only doing it for my pleasure. Jeanette, ScorepioDL and LoadedMink 3 Quote Link to comment
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