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Does anyone remember the first time they successfully masturbated?

I do, and I was about 14 and a half.

I was a late bloomer. Puberty really didn't start kicking in until I was nearly 14. I was one of those grade 8 kids who hated getting changed in front of others, as I was quite undeveloped compared to my school mates. I only started getting pubic hair just before my 14th birthday. It didn't take too long after that for the wet dreams to start, and while I understood about what they were and why they happened, it's still an uncomfortable time in a young boys life. We had discussed wet dreams at school in Sex Ed, and I knew that if I masturbated it would relieve the wet dreams, but I didn't really know how.

I had tried of course. I had laid in bed before going to sleep, and tried to imagine what sex was like, and had looked at pictures and magazines showing naked people of both genders having sex, (these were pre internet days) but while I could get aroused, I just couldn't quite work out the finer points of how to achieve an orgasm. In the end I would just be building myself up, then be guaranteed that I would have a wet dream afterwards, exactly what I was trying to avoid.

This all changed one night when I had a bath.

I had been hanging out with my friend Shelley, who lived across the road. I've mentioned her before in a lot of my stories, as she was a huge influence in my interest in all things involving wetting and desperation. She occasionally had accidents, and we both loved peeing in our swimsuits when we got the chance. We had also wet our pants a few times just for fun, when we could safely get away with it, and had seen each other wet on numerous occasions. It was also a topic that we talked about a lot.

That afternoon after school, we were just riding our bikes around and hanging out, when she just blurted out "I wet myself this morning!"

She then told me a story about how she was waiting for her sister to finish in the shower that morning so that she could use it. Shelley needed a pee, but was waiting to go in the shower when her sister finished. While she waited, Shelley apparently decided to take some clothes off the line while only wearing her short nightie with panties underneath. She had gone to the line, but the cool morning air had made her need much more urgent, and she had suddenly started peeing, and quite heavily too by the sound of it. She basically just gave in, and stood on the grass and peed in her panties as she stood there. She used a towel off the line to dry her legs, then leaving her dripping panties on, had just gone back inside and waited for her turn in the bathroom.

I was instantly aroused by this, and asked her lots of questions about it, like did anyone know, and how it felt to be wearing wet knickers under her nightie without anybody knowing, and she quite happily told me all about it.

So that night I'm in the bath, and having the opportunity to experiment with my own body again. Not really knowing what to do, I tried to picture myself having sex, which isn't easy if you've never had nor really seen sex before. I tried imagining different famous women who were widely regarded as "hot", but while I would get hard, I just didn't really know what to do about it.

As I'm laying there gently "washing" myself, my thoughts somehow turned to my conversation with Shelley earlier. I started imagining her desperate to pee, crossing her legs and bending over a bit while complaining. This was easier to imagine, as I had actually seen her like this many times.

Suddenly something clicked. I really could picture it. We had done this sort of thing so often before, I didn't have to imagine or guess, or try to make something up. I had seen it before and loved it. I just hadn't really seen it as a sexual act before, it was just a naughty thing we liked doing.

Before I knew it, I was transported right into the story. I could see her desperate, bouncing around, complaining to herself but not really worried about it. I pictured her leaking, the pee dripping down beneath her to puddle on the ground. Once again easy, as if seen it before. Suddenly she was peeing flat out, hot liquid running down her legs and over her bare feet. The only difference is in my imagination she was running to get to the toilet, not just giving up on purpose.

Suddenly I was aware of stirring feelings "down there" as I rubbed harder and faster, still thinking if my friend wetting her pants. Suddenly I felt things that I hadn't felt before, and as I imagined her losing control of her bladder, I lost control in a different way, and the most amazing feeling of my life swept over me as I orgasmed all over my chest and stomach.

The relief was incredible, and I actually felt really proud of myself! After finally learning how to do it, I then started practicing as much as possible after that!

Does anybody else remember their first time, and was it an omo themed experience?

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My first time was an omo experience. It was just plain weird. While my voice didn't deepen until my 14th summer, midway through 8th grade, I had my first orgasm. I also had 5 pitiful pubic hairs. I know, boohoo. Anyways, I had been doing this thing, where I got a bunch of tissues, and squirted pee on them. At this time, it was just some desire I had had for years and years, to do wetting related things. This particular night, I had a boner(go figure) And so I put like 9 tissue neatly over my erection, neatly encasing my member. At some point I started to rub, and I began to feel good. Like, really good. So i kept rubbing and rubbing, and then I started to feel like I needed to pee, so I kept going. Next thing I know, I feel like I'm on cloud 9, and I was wracked with convulsions as I came violently into the tissues. Afterwards, I felt the inside, and to my surprise found it kinda sticky. It wasn't until tomorrow in the middle of Religion class(I went to private catholic school) that it dawned on me I had my first orgasm. And in Religion class, of all others. Awkward.....

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So we're all describing our firsts? I think my first is actually pretty good. This is really embarrassing to type out but I will anyway....

 

My first orgasm was directly caused by an omo-themed experience.

 

Prior to this experience I never actually masturbated, nor did I have a complete ejaculation ever. I've never actually had a wet dream in my life, but I came pretty close. I woke up before my body actually went through with it, but when I went to the bathroom I was taken aback to see something that wasn't urine come out of me (a single drop's worth).  

 

When I was about 12, I decided that I wanted to really explore my interest in wetting, which I always had my entire life.  I began searching for videos of people wetting themselves on youtube, and I began to really start trying to wet myself.  When I was younger I was too afraid to actually pee in my pants, so I would poor water on my crotch to simulate the feeling of having wet pants.  Now I began doing small amounts here and there but never really a complete soaking. I eventually started doing those (I wasn't careful and almost got caught a few times, so I had to stop).  

 

But one time I pre-planned playing out a "fantasy" where I would be sleeping and I would wet the bed.  Since I actually wanted to sleep in a dry bed. I covered my bed with a blanket that I wasn't using, and was going to wet that blanket (it was pretty thick, but probably wouldn't have worked).  So slightly had to pee, but not urgently, and I began to lay myself in my "bed."  At this point an insane amount of feelings went through my body; excitement, nervousness, desire, fear, happiness.  I really wanted to do this, because I was so curious to see how it feels.  

 

I spent a few minutes attempting to pee.  I really didn't have any luck though. I think I got one tiny squirt out before I started locking up.  But man, the excitement going through me was insane.  It kept building up.  But I kept trying to pee, and trying and trying and trying, while body was getting more and more excited.  Shortly after, I started feeling really weird in my crotch, like something wasn't right.  My crotch started pulsing.  Then I sat up because I freaked out....and my body released.

 

I wasn't even touching myself, but from the sheer excitement of what I was doing, I gave myself my very first orgasm. I wasn't at all prepared for it either. As I sat up, I looked straight to my crotch and I watched myself ejaculate in my pants.  I happened to be wearing thin athletic shorts and no underwear at the time, and it came out so strong that I was able to see that it was not pee.  A lot came out, so much so that I thoroughly soaked my pants, completely out of my control.  I think the release lasted a full 2-3 seconds, and I just sat there for a good minute because I was still trying to figure out what just happened to me.  I knew pretty much nothing about sexuality at all at the time, so I had no clue I had a sexual interest in wetting.  Eventually I got changed, and that's that.  Say what you want, but that moment felt so amazing.

 

Seriously, for something I was pre-planning for my own fun and curiosity, I had no idea what I was actually about to go through.  I don't think I'll be able to top that moment by myself; that was probably one of the most pleasurable moments of my life this far.

 

From there my sexuality developed. Shortly after I naturally started to masturbate because it started simulating the feelings I had back at that moment, and that's how I learned that wetting is an extremely important part of my sexual identity.  I realized my sexual interest in this before I even was able to 100% conclude that I was heterosexual.

 

And so that's my story.  I didn't think I would actually describe it and share it on a forum, but here I am...

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These are so very hot, thank you for sharing, I can't do my tale of discovering masturbation and do it justice, but suffice to say I had a naughty dream, and woke up in a wet Goodnite with lots of blanket between my legs, and very hastily rubbed myself to orgasm through the wet Goodnite, I must have been 12 or 13. I think the first 10 times I masturbated was through a wet pullup (pee a couple of times, water other times), and it took me a while to realize I could use my fingers directly on my clit.

Which was a whole other experience :)

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Amazing stories everyone, so I guess I'll just share my own "first time". I was about 15 years old (VERY late, I know) and I was wearing a diaper. So lets start this story from the beginning, when i first discovered diapers:

 

I was probably about 12 or so when I discovered my interest for diapers. I would watch youtube videos of diapered people and all that stuff. Of course I wanted to try some myself but a long time, I never got the courage. When I was 14, a small shop opened just a five minute walk from our house, and one time I noticed that they sold diapers up to size 5. I figured that I could fit into these with a bit of squeezing, and after some time I finally made the attempt to buy them. Took a backpack. Walked to the store. Too many people. Went home. This went on for a few times, before I actually hit a good time once. (around 12.30) I went to the hygiene products aisle and took the pack of diapers. It was a cardboard box and bigger than I had expected. At the counter, I was extremely nervous, I almost dropped my money and I was shaking like crazy. The cashier must have noticed, I'm pretty sure. 

After that, I was happy that I overcame my fear of buying the diapers. Now I still had to wait until my parents weren't home for a whole day or at least 5-6 hours. When the day came, I was so excited (really) that I had problems putting the diaper on. It was also a bit too small, but I eventually got it with some tape. I had a lot of fun in this first diaper (since childhood) and this went on for almost a year I think.

 

Then one night, only my father was at home and I had a strong urge to put on a diaper. So I did. Drank some water. Waited. Soaked the diaper. I didn't really decide to masturbate that night, but after I took the diaper off and put it under me, kneeling on the floor I just started playing around. Obviously, I was getting really aroused, rubbed it. The feeling of it was amazing. But then it felt like I had to pee again. I stopped for a moment, but then thought "Well thats what the diaper is for, right?" and started rubbing again. This time, I finished it and it was the best feeling I've ever had until then.

 

After this, the next few times were also in diapers and I also discovered porn, but only diaper related porn. The "normal" stuff seemed weird to me. Up to this day, I still almost only watch diaper/omorashi related porn and only rarely normal stuff. Anyone else who doesn't enjoy normal porn?

 

Hope you enjoyed :)

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So we're all describing our firsts? I think my first is actually pretty good. This is really embarrassing to type out but I will anyway....

 

My first orgasm was directly caused by an omo-themed experience.

 

Prior to this experience I never actually masturbated, nor did I have a complete ejaculation ever. I've never actually had a wet dream in my life, but I came pretty close. I woke up before my body actually went through with it, but when I went to the bathroom I was taken aback to see something that wasn't urine come out of me (a single drop's worth).  

 

When I was about 12, I decided that I wanted to really explore my interest in wetting, which I always had my entire life.  I began searching for videos of people wetting themselves on youtube, and I began to really start trying to wet myself.  When I was younger I was too afraid to actually pee in my pants, so I would poor water on my crotch to simulate the feeling of having wet pants.  Now I began doing small amounts here and there but never really a complete soaking. I eventually started doing those (I wasn't careful and almost got caught a few times, so I had to stop).  

 

But one time I pre-planned playing out a "fantasy" where I would be sleeping and I would wet the bed.  Since I actually wanted to sleep in a dry bed. I covered my bed with a blanket that I wasn't using, and was going to wet that blanket (it was pretty thick, but probably wouldn't have worked).  So slightly had to pee, but not urgently, and I began to lay myself in my "bed."  At this point an insane amount of feelings went through my body; excitement, nervousness, desire, fear, happiness.  I really wanted to do this, because I was so curious to see how it feels.  

 

I spent a few minutes attempting to pee.  I really didn't have any luck though. I think I got one tiny squirt out before I started locking up.  But man, the excitement going through me was insane.  It kept building up.  But I kept trying to pee, and trying and trying and trying, while body was getting more and more excited.  Shortly after, I started feeling really weird in my crotch, like something wasn't right.  My crotch started pulsing.  Then I sat up because I freaked out....and my body released.

 

I wasn't even touching myself, but from the sheer excitement of what I was doing, I gave myself my very first orgasm. I wasn't at all prepared for it either. As I sat up, I looked straight to my crotch and I watched myself ejaculate in my pants.  I happened to be wearing thin athletic shorts and no underwear at the time, and it came out so strong that I was able to see that it was not pee.  A lot came out, so much so that I thoroughly soaked my pants, completely out of my control.  I think the release lasted a full 2-3 seconds, and I just sat there for a good minute because I was still trying to figure out what just happened to me.  I knew pretty much nothing about sexuality at all at the time, so I had no clue I had a sexual interest in wetting.  Eventually I got changed, and that's that.  Say what you want, but that moment felt so amazing.

 

Seriously, for something I was pre-planning for my own fun and curiosity, I had no idea what I was actually about to go through.  I don't think I'll be able to top that moment by myself; that was probably one of the most pleasurable moments of my life this far.

 

From there my sexuality developed. Shortly after I naturally started to masturbate because it started simulating the feelings I had back at that moment, and that's how I learned that wetting is an extremely important part of my sexual identity.  I realized my sexual interest in this before I even was able to 100% conclude that I was heterosexual.

 

And so that's my story.  I didn't think I would actually describe it and share it on a forum, but here I am...

Some great stories here everyone!

I know exactly what you mean about not having a complete wet dream at first. When I started having these dreams, I would usually wake up as I orgasmed, and I was usually having some sort of peeing dream.

At the start, I thought that I was starting to wet the bed again, something that had stopped before I had turned 12. Back then, I would often have some version of the classic pee dream, where I'd be bursting to pee, and suddenly find a toilet to use, or for some reason be told that it was ok to wet myself, or perhaps I'd be wearing a nappy and find myself being told to use it.

When I had these dreams, I usually (although not always) woke up just before I started peeing or just after. A lot of times I woke up just on the verge of disaster, but still dry, but I wouldn't make it to the toilet without leaking on the way. Funny thing is when I did experience a full on heavy wetting that I didn't wake up for, I never could remember my dreams. But waking up just as I started was common.

It was the same with the wet dreams. They didn't seem to be overly sexual, but they were pee related. Most times it was me wetting myself in my dreams, but often would be others, but they were similar dreams to my old bed wetting scenarios. I would be needing to pee badly, but would wake up just as I started to release, although there were times I didn't. I remember once waking up dry, but feeling like I needed to go NOW, so I jumped out of bed and started hurrying to the toilet. Feeling like I was about to have an accident, I grabbed myself through my pyjamas, and then promptly came in my pants! That was the first time I ever saw what the fresh result of my dreams looked like.

But the feelings of waking up only just in time, maybe just a little bit wet were eerily similar.

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These are all really fascinating stories to read! In part because I haven't heard many men (or people with penises, idk how you all identify) talk about their first experiences masturbating - but also because my own interests in pee came much later in life. 

 

In truth I don't remember the first time I masturbated. I know it started out as something I would do in the bathtub. Never fingering myself, only playing with my clit. Of course, at the time I didn't know what a clitoris was (I was probably 11-12), only that it felt good when I played with it. I remember doing this a number of times before actually having my first orgasm. I had a LOT of taboo feelings about pee and wetting accidents and when I would get close to cumming it felt like I was about to wet myself, so I would get afraid and stop. I guess one day I decided I didn't care because if felt good so I kept going. I've often wondered if the interest I developed later in wetting and desperation stems back to that...the way that my preteen self associated needing to pee with being about to orgasm. Hard to say, really.  

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When I was younger I used to enjoy wetting my bathers after swimming and too wet to go inside. My sister would sometimes wet hers too.

Later when I was about 13 I started wetting my bed sheets at night and rubbing (humping) myself against the warm wet sheet and it obviously felt really good. But I had no idea at all that I was cumming. Once I learned to cum separately which was initially intense and painful; I started wetting my shorts at my desk and of course wetting my pants in bed too. My mother used to think I was too lazy to get up to go to the toilet haha oops

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The sensations from a full bladder and those from sex converged one evening when I was in my room, needing to pee really urgently, and I masturbated to help hold it in a little longer.  I had my first full-bladder orgasm then, followed by a very long, enjoyable piss.  From then on I was hooked on combining the two things.

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It all happened at once for me when I was 13. Masturbation, linked to a pee fetish, in a single morning. I was on my stomach in bed reading a good book. I hadn't got up and gone to the bathroom yet, and my need to pee grew from a background level to fairly strong to desperately urgent.

I had a childhood habit of delaying going to the bathroom. I kept putting it off for just one more chapter until I was wriggling and pressing myself against the bed holding it in. It started feeling really good down there, and with no understanding of what I was doing but my whole adolescent body saying "don't stop" and showing me the way I followed the feelings, rocking and finally thrusting myself against the bed until I passed the point of no return and came copiously in my pyjamas.

Helpless waves of pleasure... that feeling of loss of control... an embarrassing wet spot on the front of my pyjama pants. I thought I'd wet myself like a little boy, that I'd made myself have an accident with that rubbing. And, that it had felt so unbelievably good as it all happened that I didn't care. I started rubbing and thrusting against the sheets again, very consciously deciding that even if it turned out I had to lose control and pee my pants like a little boy as I got that feeling I was going to do it right now. And I gave myself a second orgasm that made the wet spot bigger.

I did it over and over again, secretly, in my room. Even after I (pretty quickly) figured out what I was really doing, and that none of the wetness was pee, the feeling was so much like the helpless moment of having an accident, as I'd done very often when I was little, that the two have been linked for me ever since.

I made myself desperate and peed in my pants like a little boy on purpose not long afterwards, just to see what it was like. I knew I was going to love it. It was totally sexually charged, imagining it and doing it and pleasuring myself in my wet pants afterwards. I can't begin to count how many times I've done it since.

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As a girl here, my experience is a little bit different. I'd been "playing with myself" for quite some time. And by that I mean just laying in bed and playing with my lips because I found it relaxing. I'd also pretty much always been interested in pee. In the shower, I'd make up scenarios of being caught short and ending up really desperate. I'd also discovered that if I was pretty desperate, usually in the car on a long car trip, that I could tighten the seatbelt on my lap a little and make it feel less urgent. But it wasn't until I was probably 14 that I paired the two together. I was really desperate once in class and I was wiggling around, crossing my legs together and rubbing my crotch, and that's when I noticed it felt good. I went home that evening and made myself really full again and started to play around. I was rubbing my crotch on my bed, dancing around, crossing my legs. And right before I thought I was going to start peeing, something else happened to me. My whole body started shaking and I could feel my vagina constricting and releasing. It felt so good that night after night I would try to make it happen again. It took me another test or so to realize that was an orgasm.

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My first time masturbating (I can't remember exactly how old - 14?) wasn't actually pee-related - I'd had wet dreams before by this point, but I just got very curious one night and decided to see what would happen if I kept rubbing my boner. I was sitting on the toilet in the bathroom once my parents had gone to bed and did just that, and then after a while it started feeling really good and I just exploded. Weirdly, the most memorable thing about the experience was that I had "I Wanna Be You" by Chocolate Puma going round in my head the entire time.

I do remember a very good wet dream, though; I was on some warm tropical island and really felt like I needed to pee. I spent what felt like quite a lot of time running around trying to find somewhere private enough to feel comfortable going, and eventually found a gap between two quite tall sand dunes with shallow sea water running down the bottom of it. I slipped between the dunes and squatted down in the inch-high water, feeling satisfied that I was on my own and quite excited to be taking the time out to do something personal and naughty. I really felt like I needed to pee, so in the dream I didn't bother to pull down my swimming shorts and just gave into the urge there and then. I started "peeing" and was overcome with fantastic relief that felt so good - and then I woke up and realised I'd just cum in my underwear. That's one of the dreams I really wish I could experience again.

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My first time actually ended up like an omo situation even though no pee came out. I was doing homework on my bed with my stomach side being on the bottom. I was wearing my bright yellow gym trousers that night (it's comfy) and my penis was just pressed all the way through the process. Eventually, it just came out to the point that my crotch was visibly damp. I haven't had any release for a few days so the amount was quite massive.

In the end, I hid my wet gym trousers in my wardrobe while I hid my soaked briefs with my other dirty undies at the laundry pile. My mom didn't say anything, thank God, so it must have been a success.?

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I actually only discovered masturbating after I lost my virginity, at about 15. I'd always had omo fantasies, often imagining wetting situations to fall asleep, and one day searched it on the family computer (painstakingly deleting the history after, obviously) when my parents were out. Low quality youtube videos of women in leggings were about all that showed up, and I watched several on different occasions before properly masturbating.

I think it probably happened because I was more desperate than I usually would be (I had a very nervous bladder as a child), and watching it for a while made it just feel 'right' to reach my hand under my skirt. I found my clit my accident, imagining I was one of the girls desperately holding on, and pressed it from the outside of my panties for a few seconds, imagining how naughty it would be to pee right now - and achieved orgasm almost immediately.

It took a few days or weeks to understand it, despite living in quite a liberal area where the concept of self-pleasure was by no means kept from us, though the sexual education at school was very poor (I didn't know that the pull out technique was unreliable until about 17, after having used it with my boyfriend several times, eek). I also think it was hard to rationalise in my head because I did have a basic understanding of pornography and sexual development, and to my mind people wetting could not be porn (after all it was on youtube), and a fantasy I had had since before I could walk could not be part of my sexuality. I didn't clock that it was an orgasm, or even actually masturbating for a very long time, but it certainly influenced how often I held a full bladder from then on - no more nervous bladder.

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I couldn't actually wet myself as a teenager but I discovered the fun the same way as you. I was laying in bed thinking about something pee related and got an erection. I was totally innocent and did not know what was happening. I only knew when I moved it felt awesome, like nothing I had ever experienced. So, I started rubbing against the bed , jolts of electric pleasure shot through my body What could feel this good. ? Very soon felt like I was going to wet the bed, even though i had not needed to go seconds earlier. Up to that point as far as I knew only pee came out  of there. I started to get up but it was too late. But this was thick and sticky. I was hooked.

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The first time it wasn't actually I who did the masturbation, it was my friend who did it for me. I would have been about 9 or 10 and he was about one year older. The incident that led to this was actually pee related,  and I have told it once before in another thread. We had been to the pool together, I had gotten really desperate and ended up wetting myself in front of my friend, which he noticed and was a bit exited by. Some time later, he started to ask me about masturbation, if I had ever done it and so on. It ended up with us showing our penises to each other, and he physically showed me "a way to make your penis feel really, really nice." It did feel really really nice, but I didn't orgasm as far as I can remember, and I didn't put any more thought into doing it again for myself until a couple of years later when puberty hit.

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I was around 11 when I first "successfully" masturbated. I was laying on my parents' floor and decided to see if I could make myself desperate to pee by squirming around, which I guess made more sense back then. Anyways, I was squirming around pretending to be really desperate when I rubbed what I thought was a strange nerve. I continued to rub this "nerve" and suddenly I was in absolute bliss. I remember being afraid I had somehow touched the outlet and electrocuted myself. I did not realize that I masturbated until almost a year later (I was really innocent, I went to Catholic school). I just thought I had some strange nerve that nobody else did, because I had never heard of the clitoris. I assumed all sexual feelings came from the vagina, which I was not touching. I was absolutely appalled when I realized that I had "touched myself." XD 

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