People whose kinks are rooted in humiliation/degradation, does it negatively impact your wellbeing/self-esteem?
I know for sure that my kinks formed from previous traumas (years of verbal, physical and even sexual bullying growing up, abusive relationships etc) all contributed, to the point where I can't really reach "full" turned on unless I'm being degraded, doing something degrading, or imagining that scenario.
However once the act is done and you get the post-o slump, its been gett